OKEY i want to make it short,i really need your help guys!This is a critical moment in my life and for the first time i have to succed!
I am an AFC and don;t know how to act with women,BUT i know the teory very well,but never had the confidence to make a single opening...i was stupid,i know...
BUT now i feel like i just have to do it,in 1 week there will be a class-mate meeting(is that how they say it?)there is an old friend that hurt me so bad 2 years ago that i can't get over it...that is one reason i became AFC and uninterested in life.Now i found out that we will meet in 1 week.


I need a cool HB to show him that i am better than him!I know it's very beta,but i feel like i have to do it!I am ready to do everything i have to,make 100 aproaches a day..i don't care!What i need is your guidince.It's 9.o clock at night in my country,what should i do to get a GF in 1 week?The clock is ticking so i need to do at least something!

I will do literraly ANYTHING,say anything to the hottest girl on the planet,if this is how confidence feels than it's really good!Now i need your help guys,don't leave me hanging!

Thank you for good advice!I will make every AFC seek redemption after i succed!And you where a part of it


EDIT 1:Change in plans,this is a challange to see how much can i improve in 7 days,i hope it will be a hell of a journey!

There is no chance I take this post at face value.

In the alternate universe where this is an actual request for help, I suggest you take your willingness to try anything and hire an escort. Reading this makes me want to run AFK.

why is that?

If you are AFK then you need to find a keyboard ASAP

why?:Pwhat did i do wrong?

first of all, don't look for a gf. you wont have enuff connection with this girl to take her to such a party and demonstrate value with her.

instead focus on opening girls. ( take an easy opener.) practice all week!!! every girl you're intrested in. you open them. ( when you're at the party, open some girls!!!) ( this shows aloth more value)

learn some cool coldreading technics, have some strories prepared, routines,... ( alloth of mystery stuff.) you can juse in conversation. ( you'll juse them on the party ;) )

be sure to get a new cool style of clothing and make sure you look clean.
clip you're fingernails, get a haircut, shave, a good parfum but take a special one!!!
(by the way when you are out to get some parfum. ask opinion off girls in the shop ;) )

take some quick lessons in bodylanguage. and practice this week. ( while opening and stuff)


so this week you're going out to get parfum, haircut, shopping,...
while you are doing this you are going to open every beautiful girl you see!!!

next week you wont have AA, and you will be able to open a set. at the party. you don't need to close anything. just be out there. you're the man. and you don't care about it if someone doesn't like you.

for the rest, leave that other guy hanging. don't show interest in him. leave the stupid fuck alone.
if he comes on to you.
you bust his balls. you befriend him. don't care. neutralise him.
do some amoging technics on him.

well thats about it:d

have a blast!!!

man thank you!The truth is that i;m kinda desperate with girls...i don;t know how to convience myself to do something:P I'm so AFK that i am considering quiting the game before even starting it...

It all seems hopeless,the only reason i'm still "Trying" is because The Game by stile,he gave me that hope to not give up,that someday something might happen...still wayting!Thank you for taking me seriously!i just might do something to get in,and improve my game!
Thanks dude!

I had to know if this was serious or not, so I read some of your past posts on the forum. If English really is your fourth language, and this is a serious request, then I apologize for dismissing you. One other thing you should be conscious of when participating on these forums is that there are sections for different types of discussions, when you ignore these sections (and post a question like the one you did in PUA Lounge) you make it harder for everyone to find what they're looking for and piss off moderators/administrators.

First of all, you mean AFC not AFK. AFC stands for Average Frustrated Chump, or someone with medium to non-existent social skills and options. Second, women are not objects to be used, they don't exist to make us feel important or desirable, they don't exist to win battles with old acquaintances, they have feelings, hopes, and dreams just like you do.

If you are serious about improving your social life, you have to leave these and other similar ideas behind. You won't be making much progress until you understand that women are people, there's nothing wrong with desiring them but don't let your desire interfere with your compassion.

Don't worry about finding a girlfriend in a week, or even a month. Focus your efforts on improving your social skills each and every day, and in parallel, continue to improve every other area of your life that matters to you. Understand that the road to the charming, fulfilled, attractive man you want to become is a long one but you can take yourself one step closer every time you push your boundaries and grow your understanding.

Learn by doing, talk to people, make friends, seek out adventure. Finally, don't ever give up.

Good luck man

OP, awesome troll job!

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Thank you for your advice,the truth is that i don't know where i'm heading in my life,i feel lost and every time I want to change something it backfires...i;m getting desperate,and i am done lying to myself about it...i hade a rough time lately and having 0 friends doesen't really help.
I don't know why people think i am troling or why what I say is a lie,i don't see the point for doing that myself...
Isn't this the reason for this forum?for guys to find the way and the answers they seek?
Maybe some of us are more desperate than others...and that make us act stupid and write stupid posts

I'm not a troll,i'm desperate...Finally i got it with the AFK/AFC..didn't get it untill now:P

Step one to a happier more socially successful life: find the positives, in everything. For example, you feel lost and desperate, but you are summoning the courage to channel these feelings into a genuine desire to improve yourself. This is incredibly powerful, and the more you practice it the better you get at seeing opportunities where others see obstacles.

Furthermore, you are wrong when you say "every time I want to change something it backfires". Every time you try strive to improve, every time you push past your comfort zone or challenge your limiting beliefs, you grow and learn. Every failure is another brick in your palace.

Ask yourself, every single day: What am I going to do today to advance my cause?

Then go do it.

Day 1!

I decided to change my goals,not wanting to get a girlfriend in 1 week,but to see how much improvement can someone make in 1 week.
So day 1 was interesting,after 3 hours of watching a movie and masturbating a bit i finally got the courage to get out the house.I got my nicest clothes,listing to some music to have more confidence and got out!

After 15 min i was in the park,and was looking for some girl to open.The thoughts raced in my head and didn't know what and how to say it,but i convinced myself that nothing bad can happen.

The first time i saw a girl staying alone on a bench with rollerblades,so i decided to open.O went there but i pulled out the last moment.I couldn't do it...but i was determined to do something!So i started talking to other people,thinking that it could be easyer.To my surprise it was,i talked to 7 old people,always starting with "it's so hot today...."they really started talking to my surprise,and it wasn't akward.

The next incident wasn't an opening,near me a was a girl and her boyfriend,she drank a Coke and she dropped the bottle there,so i did what i truly wanted to do,i got there,took the bottle why they where staring at me and said friendly "i am eco-friendly,so the next time walk 10 m and trow it properly"they where shocked and didn't say anything.I felt proud that i did what i really wanted!

I was getting hungry,so i said that i stay until someone say something negative,or remotely negative...I talked to more people,asking directions,simple small talk and stuff like that.I was talking to a friend on the phone and i told him that i found something,i went to a group of 7-8 HB7-10 girls and asked what is that,pretending i didn't knew it was a nut...
-it's a nut,the hotest said looking at my like i'm an idiot,it's like the size of your brain...Every girl started laughing
-Maybe,but thats the size of your personality too...they didn't say anything,and i went away...

I got into the bus and wanted to go to my Grandma,because she makes good food and i was hungry.

On the bus i saw a girl,i went near her and sat down,i said something like 'it's so hot in here"she said yes but i didn't hear it,and just looked at me..i started talking to her and i saw that she was very social.i pretended to get out the same place as her and continued the chat...after a while we split but i asked for her number,in case i go again on the bus and i have to talk with someone(that's lame,i know,but it worked!)She gave me her number and got away....The truth is that she wasn't that beautifull,i rate her 4/5 out of 10,but she had huge boobs...but that doesen't matter,just in 1 day i pulled a number close,and that is something!!!i don't think i will call her,but the truth is i am getting more confident in myself and PU!

Thanks everyone!!

Day 1:Time spent 2h