i have become very confused by the pickup community as of late i ve been around it for a long time, and to be honest i am debating what i am still doing in it, when i joined i was in an LTR but i knew it was going to end sooner or later so i thought i ll learn to pick up so that when i brake up with her ill just find girls to have sex with and if its good keep em on purely as a fuck buddy if not dont call her again! and all this time later my motivation hasnt changed in the slightest! the problem i have is no-one seems interested in having sex with loads of women they seem more interested in being loved! i have been thinking would i rather be loved or be laid and quite frankly i ve been loved and loved and honestly dont care for it much, id rather get laid! i dont intend on settling down not for a while but too many guys seem to want find that special someone and live happily ever after..... hate to be the bearer of bad news there is no such thing as a special someone theres just a someone! i know that im a romance killer but i dont like romance! i like sex good hard sex!

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life sucks and then you die! deal with it

Here here!

Im in no rush to clasp a ball and chain to my ankle.

i don't see why the two are considered mutually exclusive.

the love aspect is more rewarding, but you can maintain that while still getting laid regularly by multiple girls.

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Every Saint has a Past, Every Sinner has a Future

Why not both?

Sooner or later every one of you PUAs will be settled down, maybe even married. Girl of the day is fun, but in the end you're left with nothing except your memories.

Being a PUA just means taking the path set by nature the way it was meant to be. If it wasn't for all of these rules in society, we would all naturally, be PUAs.