girl ive always clicked with has come back home...
shes a professional dancer, so her work entails being all over the world, but shes about ready to just settle down with it and figure out what she wants back at home.

she just got out of a long 4 year long distance relationship (long distance is bs, imo)
anyway she got back home, moved out of state with this dude...and it lasted about a month, they couldnt stand eachother, so she came running back home. this is what she told me anyway.

waited a month or so..then i asked her on a date and we just hit it off, great rapport, texting back and forth everyday for a couple of weeks. always played the CF role, made her laugh at everyother sentence i said. she really started getting into me....texting me every morning, asking when i would take her out, inviting me to show her out, 0 to 60

another date, started with light kino on her leg, played her thigh little bit and slipped up her shorts just to tease over her panties... until she was digging her nails into my arm. good date. she text me as soon as she got home about how "i cant handle you!!! creepy boy!!!, had a lot of fun, txt me tomrw"

next day shes revealing sexual fantasies to me so i figure im in for the kill...

i head to the gym and after i send her a text, and brakes slam....60 to 0.... completly one sided conversation...she like "im pretty tired... ill ttyl"
something happend in that hour i wasnt talking to her....my only guess is her ex is trying to reach out to her again

so i freeze out, next day leave my phone at home...and i have all of these texts "are you mad at me??" "im sorry i was a brat" etc

but ever since... it seems like we both are playing the higher value roles... she replies to my texts after a few hours.....i reply to hers after a few hours....

so its like, we both hard to get and all the momentum is gone....

im not sure whether to initiate anything at this point and just pull moves in person...or just back off and ignore anything she says to me until i know her ex isnt in the picture???

First, Why the hell didn't you close her when she was digging her nails into you and such?

Second, stop being paranoid. Text her, flirt for a few and set up another meet up and then.....CLOSE!

Shes into you.

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i didnt close because at that point we hadnt even kissed yet, we were watching a meteor shower laying on our backs 90 degrees to one another with my head resting on her boobs...i didnt want to turn around and hop on her unnaturally so i just played it cool as if i could care less. i didnt want any slut alarms going off either.

The last few times ive flirted via text, she does flirt back but she waits a long time to reply...so shes probably gaming me.

shes got a plane ticket back to his place in the coming week, to pick up her car and the rest of her sh*t... and supposedly drive halfway back across the country. i guess ill just back off until that pans out, maybe they never really even broke up and i was the fling to fill the void.

im debating whether to wish her a safe trip, glad i got to see you, but seems like itd be a little AFC to do.

she made the last contact... she sent me something random...to get a laugh, just a forwarded facebook msg of some goofy guy asking her on a date. i just ignored it, and i think should hold back any contact in the meantime

ok played the indifferent role for a couple days, but she left today to "get all of her stuff from her ex"

i gave in and sent her a couple texts

"hope your cached underpants dont count as an extra carry-on" (inside joke, she unknowingly had an extra thong hanging in the back beltloop of her shorts one night we went out, embarrassed the sh*t out of herself haha)

"safe trip, dont think about me too much "

i was trying to sound as if i didnt care what way she goes
guess ill see where this goes...