This girl I'm seeing keeps telling me she prefers guy without it and I keep telling her IT'S MY LOOK!

Whats the deal on this? Some kind of shit test?

Usually girls who don't like facial hair aren't doing it because it's a shit test but because they're actually serious. It could be but I doubt it. If you don't want to get rid of it then don't though lol don't become her bitch.

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Nothing in pick up applies to all women. There's no such thing as rejection... they're just playing hard to get.

Its your face so if you want facial hair keep it.

You can't tell her to get bigger boobs or to lose weight so why should she be able to tell you what to do with your face?

Its fine if she has a preference... but she should NOT be forcing it on you. Tell her NO.

I good test of a woman's character is how well she responds to being told "NO".

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Women are smarter than you think... but not as smart as THEY think

i agree with PlayHer Man its your face, tell her you want her to bleach her hair or change her hairstyle

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life sucks and then you die! deal with it

whatever you do just don't do it. Whohas balls in the relationship

I've had this issue in the past, and must admit that I also encouraged (well, when I say encouraged, I mean that I told him that I wouldn't kiss him until he got rid of it) my then-boyfriend to lose the facial hair because it was itchy and made it uncomfortable for me to kiss him.

I would ask why she objects to your facial hair; if it truly is an aesthetic issue, ignore her, but if it's a comfort thing, I'd recommend losing the facial hair (okay, yes, I know--I'm biased). But, if it is a comfort thing, losing the hair could be to your advantage as well--ie. more frequent and enthusiastic kissing and/or making out.

Not sure I agree with the other poster's that you should flat out refuse, if it's very important to you than of course keep it but...

A girl I saw for a good while that complained that my stubble scratched her, sometimes guys don't remember how much softer a woman's skin can be. My bristles would scratch her face or her thighs

I liked rocking one or two days worth of stubble, but I shaved since it made her more comfortable, and because I liked rubbing up against her smooth skin. Up to you, just my experience.

I have decided not to shave it.

It's my look and I like it. If she doesn't like it, too bad. This is the first time I've encountered this, so thanks a lot for the advice guys, I appreciate it!

The badboy/rocker look usually gets compliments from the older ladies! haha

I'm not anyone's bitch

I definitely wouldn't shave it. But...hear me out.

Long stubble can really become uncomfortable during long makeout sessions or oral sex (especially if she's just gotten a wax and her skin is sensitive). I would recommend conditioning your facial hair. It will make it softer and less irritating.