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PostPosted: Sun Aug 22, 2010 2:55 am 
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Literally about 10 mins ago I got a taxi back to my house with a girl (She lives quite close) and I paid for the damn taxi with the confidence I was gonna get some action.

We kissed for a bit in the nearby park , then she said she had to go (has work early in the mornings)

Now im out of pocket and left with no happy ending! How do i resurrect the situation??
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PostPosted: Sun Aug 22, 2010 7:09 am 
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You probably didn't escalate fast enough!


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PostPosted: Sun Aug 22, 2010 9:13 am 
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I need advice on how to play it from here on.

I was thinking next time i see her, to make her buy me a drink to owe me for the taxi lol.


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PostPosted: Sun Aug 22, 2010 10:49 am 
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1. Don't act needy. 2. Don't act needy. 3. Don't act needy.
Even in a humorous way. It'll simply get you nowhere and you'll end up displaying low value. You never know, she could well be giving you a genuine reason? Approach her again and convince yourself into believing that she would have come along if she didn't have to leave for whatever reasons she gave. This gives you the confidence that the ball was in your court. If she comes along, good enough, if she doesn't, move on. (At least make it seem like you have moved on). After all there are way too many girls to invest (waste?) time on one :wink: .

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PostPosted: Mon Aug 23, 2010 1:38 pm 
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Agree with j-pimp.

You got a k-close which you should be happy about, and that might well have been a genuine reason. Just ASSUME that she lost track of time because she was having too much fun with you and ASSUME she's still interested and WANTS you to take things further. Fuck the taxi fare, if you make any kind of fuss over that to her you'll look like a cheap dickhead.

Get into contact with her, set up a fun day 2, and go from there. Remember to physically escalate, and use "two steps forward, one step back" to really make her WANT to. That is to say, always be the one to break off kino first if possible. Don't get pouty or annoyed if she breaks off a kiss or says she's not gonna sleep with you. Just break off contact, do something non-sexual for a minute or two, and then re-engage.

Two separate girls from last week I felt were so obviously on it that I didn't need to pull out the whole box of tricks ended up giving serious LMR. If I had done more push-pull then I probably would have had an easier time. As it was I did about 7 freeze-outs to one of them but got there in the end. They work, but you won't have to use them if you use push-pull correctly.


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