Over the past month i have worked very hard using PUA techniques to build a strong emotional connection with a girl who is in another state. This mainly consisted of messenger, and text-talk, due to the fact that we are both occupied at work during the day - at a computer. She had already planned on coming to town this weekend to see her friends, and decided to come in a night early to spend a night with me. She dropped a seemingly endless amount of IOI's which suggested that shit was gonna go down...

So she gets into town.. we're watching and snugglin close and literally right before i plan on beginning the make-out session - SHE FALLS ASLEEP.

YES, SHE FALLS ASLEEP RIGHT ON ME! LITERALLY ON TOP OF ME.

I spent the rest of the night glooming on the computer and complaining to my friends about this chick whom i wanted a month to meet that was now occupying my bed.

The next morning i was over it. I felt frustrated, and confused, and so i was pretty cold to her. It didn't seem to phase her, and she was still super-flirty with me like always.

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I NEED TO GET BETTER AT RECOGNIZING WHEN A SITUATION IS WORTH IT OR NOT. I can't tell if she is the kind of girl that flirts with everyone or she really wanted me - needless to say i didn't give a shit once she fell asleep.

So my question(s)...

Should i keep pursuing her? Is she a dead fish? When should i let go? What should i have done? Should i have punished her for falling asleep? Should i have tried again this morning? Bleh.. i was so confused by the situation that i just decided to give her the cold shoulder and i will probably continue to do so. If she does want me, I'm going to make her ass work for it now.

I just need general feedback because i feel like the night was a complete fucking waste.

wow.. if you feel like giving up on a situation like this, u are in fact quite weak.

how about try falling in love with a lesbian.

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