Hi guys,

I signed up to the forum to ask this question - I couldn't find any info anywhere else and it would be really useful to have a PUA perspective.

So I've been gaming this girl who is definitely interested in me. She's been throwing buckets of shit tests at me which I've handled pretty well - all by the rules! But I'm not sure what to do about this most recent one. On my facebook, very few people have posted on my wall recently, and she noticed and wrote 'you're so unpopular it's actually quite funny'. If she said this face to face, I'd throw it back at her, but the public aspect of the wall means that I can't be as outrageous without looking like a fool/creep to anyone else reading it. Can anyone suggest a way out?

Thanks loads!

I'd write something like...


We can't all be as popular as you. It must be so amazing to have so many fulfilling friendships, and to always have people seeking out attention from you. I bet people are always writing on your wall on facebook. Maybe you can give me some tips on how to relate with people as well as you do? Then maybe one day I can be as cool as you!!

write on her wall: that's because only nerds write on my wall

im unsure about this though because it's a neg but also a DLV at the same time lol

You can even reply with a simple "Yea I know".

Shit tests are alright for a little while but if this is continuing for ages then you got to think if its worth keeping contact with her .

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you: who's this "you're" character you keep referring to?

I dunno, first thing that came to mind.

dont respond. let her think its because you have better things to do than keep in touch with people on a website.

i deleted my facebook for pretty much this reason, i would get a wall post once every few days or so and to me it felt like a huge DLV if you're not getting too many wall posts, so i made a promise that until i increase my social circle i wont get back on facebook lol.

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Hey guys, thanks for the suggestions! Sorry I didn't reply till now, it was sleep time in England! I went with a combination of wowo and deefort's ideas; "not a day goes by when I wish I were as cool as you". It's kind of a neg, cause the first time she reads it it'll look like I'm complimenting her, but then she'll realise it's not (she's quite an intellectual type).

So yeah, cheers for the help! Just to reply to bormad - I actually really like (verbal) shit tests cause it keeps the game interesting - keeps you on your toes and needing snappy retorts. And to rename - it's actually quite an anomaly I haven't had that many wall posts. I think it's cause I haven't been making any status updates - if you try making them then you may get more stuff said (or at least commented). Also birthdays are a great time to get loads of people starting conversations with you (if you don't have one coming soon, change it and pretend it was a frape - means you get a funny conversation topic and also is a DHV cause you have friends who frape you)

wait a few days

reply
"sorry for late reply, i was out having a life with my mates, and having actual conversations in person rather than on facebook. Cute how you are popular on facebook though."

aka dominated.hahah

Yea what that last guy said.

You know what I did?

Deleted my facebook wall completely. I don't go on facebook to get validation from people, I am on it as a networking tool alone. I don't even have over 100 friends and I don't surf facebook stalking people judging my own value against their perceived value.

I like what the last guy said, dominate that shit and neg her right back. Eventually I would get rid of your wall.

My friends would post disgusting vulgar things on my wall all the time.

SUCK MY PENIS

shit like that.

I have a reputation to uphold so a facebook wall is retarded to me.

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I agree with the dont repsond.
Dont deal with petty things like this. any response is what she wants. U leave her hanging and she will DLV herself in her own head. also dont apologize for not responding.
She will start wondering if she came off like an asshole and will start thinking deeply into it

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