Okay heres the load down-

Quick lowdown:

-On the 28th there is a an 18th for a fella i know

-There are two girls there who are particularly attractive (Call em Blondie and Small for want of a better name).

-I would like to chat up either of these two girls(preferably Blondie)

-I have talked to them both on varying occasions during rowing training & facebook

Complications:

*Both are very close to each other

*I dated the Small ones best friend at one point and believe her friend still has feelings for me(or had, its history as far as i know)

*Both are very pretty, young and used to getting attention and mostly what they want

*Both are kinda crazy but that might just be the prettiness and im not sure if its a bad thing

Just with all these factors in mind how should i approach them during the party? Theyl be getting attention left and right during the thing, so im in fairly stiff competition.
Any advice?
Thanks

well since you mention you talk to them before and you know each other, just approach them like any normal friend would. Sure she'll be getting attention but dont let that phase you. If you are the only guy thats not giving her attention but having a kick ass time there soon enough she'll come talk to you. dont be a try hard to get her attention. Cause then you'll just fall right in to her hands. If all the guys are chatting up her ( the blonde) chat up her other friend.

Now if the situation is where they are both there and getting lots of attention from all the guys. Chat up other girls/guys at the party. So what if they are getting all the attention. Just go there and have fun.

for "Small" What ever you do dont bring up the fact you use to date her best friend. Like you said its history. If she brings it up just let her know its all in the past and you've move on. Have a chat with her and soon enough the blonde will join you.

You need to steal that attention spot light if she getting all the attention and you want her attention.

- To get her attention, you need steal the attention she getting ( she'll want it back)
- Keep her intrested with some insightful conversation. I'd imagine all the guys will be trying to brag or complement the hell out of her.
- even if she your target, make friend with other people. Make new doors open. That avrg girl in the corner might happend to have a hotter blonde friend but you dont know unless you talk to her.

as you stated these 2 are your targets of choice but dont always focus on that. Its your goal but your main concern is to go there and have fun. soon enough all the peices will come together. I cant really put it into step or routine or what to say. thats up to you. Be confident, Socialable, and be fun!

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Hmm okay, but what if both are getting chatted up?

Good post and was going to say pretty much the same before I read your whole post, reps to you.

Pick your target, be sociable, friendly and fun, along with some confidence and cockyness, and be involved with everyone when possible, i.e if your in a group or area, that way you'll come across more friendly and approachable. Once you've built good comfort with your target, take it from there, either move somewhere with just you and the target, or tell her you'll be back in a minute, she will wonder what your up to etc and definitely want you to come back if the comfort has been built, go for it.

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as i stated in my last post" steal there attention" meaning make friends with the guy's that are chatting them up. start talking to them and divert there attention to you. they'll try to regain that attention back. Like a moth to a light. they will come to you.

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