I went on the first date with this girl, we both hit it off really good. At the end of the day, we ended up making out. Even though she didn't wanna leave, but she had to due to her work. I screwed up here because being too busy to make out with her and forgot to say I had a great time when I said good night.
Does the same rule with sex apply here? Where you have to call her the next day so she doesn't feel like being used. How long should I wait to call her?
She's a 9 btw.

Just send her a flirty text the next day.

You don't always have to call.

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I know, I just mean get in touch with her, i usually just txt her. Normally I would say i had a great time and don't txt the girl for at least 2 days. But i have a dilemma here that I didn't say I had a great time. I just don't want her to feel being used.

You don't have to say you had a great time. Honestly I almost never say this to women.

The fact that you are still talking to her and flirting with her shows her that you enjoy her company. Remember that being somewhat aloof turns women on. Its better to leave some things to her imagination and not make yourself so obvious all the time.

You did everything right.

A lot of guys feel the need to run their mouth and this is the opposite of what you should be doing. the more you talk the more you screw up. As the man your job is to take action. Her job is to run her mouth.

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Hah that means I should switch to my evil mode, and fuck with her brain lol.

You don't need to fuck with her brain. Just be more relaxed about the whole thing.

Let her prove herself and demonstrate her value before you open up like a book. Thats all I'm saying. Women are highly judgemental.. especially before they have slept with you. Remember you have a high risk of entering the "friend zone" until you sleep with her. After that... its easier to be open and show more of your cards.

You have to play to win. It makes life easier for YOU.

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Don't text. And three days. Those are long standing rules for a reason.

Texting works for me.

The world changes constantly. You don't have to limit yourself to old dating rules from the 1950's.

Most women love texting. Its more exciting to get a random text in the middle of the day with a flirtatious message she can respond to privately than a random phone call she can't answer because other people are around.

Use technology to make your life (and her's) easier. No woman will lose interest JUST because you text her. Thats ridiculous.

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I think the "never text" thing, which I fully followed until I had a little epiphany yesterday, could be slightly amended to cover what we're talking about.

Don't text just to say "hello."

If you know she's at work and text her to see if she wants to meet up later, that's fine. Just don't send a girl a message to have a conversation.

She texted me first the night after, so it's all good now. She started txting me almost everyday ever since the day she got my number.