hi guys, there's the thing, i work in a bank, as a teller, i started to go to lunch in an art coffee and the waitress is my kind of girl, lol, pretty, cute, and love '70 rock, so, i start whit what for a bank employee ,( at least here in argentina) is my second nature, cocky and funny, so, i've been playfull, and a few more things, and thanks that i'm an artist also ( painting) and the advice form fine pleople from here, i beginto pick up some body language from her and the owner, ( cool dude), i often catch him lookin us like specting from something to happen , the thing is., i only have 40 min to lunch, so betwen the time i get to that coffe shop, i order, and eat, there's not much time left to game her,at least whit my poor skills at this moment, so ( last monday she told me about her weekend and how so many guys try to pick her up , i act indiferent , like o yeah sure . while i was thinking wtf!! lol)

a few days later, i find out she play guitar, and piano, i'm restart the guitar lesson in a rock academy here, so i pop up the issue by talking whit the owner of that place ( he is no danger), knowing she will listening. a min later she aproach me requesting for the phone or mail of the rock place and i saw the chance to exchange phone numbers. and i did it. 15 min later, she aproach me again, her hand on my shoulder put her face a few inches of mine and aske me, what is ur name? here we know you as the bank guy.... ( ioi right? )

, work was hell all week so i wasn't abble to go to that bar for 3 days , when i was abble to went there last friday as soon i enter the place she display all kinds of ioi pretty much jump me to say hello.. this girl loves cat and it happens that i own one, so whit the idea of meet her outside her enviroment i play a bit and we agree that she will go out whit me to take my cat to the veterinary ( really my idea is she going to my neighbourhood, pass to my apartment, pick up the kitty and share a date that didn't looks like one ) buuuuuuut my cell runs out of power and i was free of work 2 hours later than i ussualy do.so i couldn't call her. crap,. ( it's ok say crap here right??) this was a loong weekend and on saturday, i send her a text message " what a nice day to eat chocolat!! ( here is winter, and was cold cloudy... she answer me saying i didn't get up of bed yet.. i guess it must be.... i text her back " c'mon lazy is late! get up of bed or i wil send my kitty to wake u up! " ( lame i know) . no answer.

any sugestion about how i can succed??

i'm kinda new on the game.i found about it 6 month ago .i'm 35 yo and thepast, 3 years ago i broke up whit my ex, then my dad died, a year to recover, then my mom almost die for a vicious heartattack so , it was quite rough for me to recover and then ......i find out about this community, and i say to me, this is what i need.

sorry if this was too long and bored, lol, i'm learn english by miself so , don't kill me if in same places i murdered the language

It looks like your relationship with her is winding down, the Game requires us to keep on going and building on previous conquests. She ioi'd you but you didn't take it further. In my experience if you didn't get her to kiss you after spending 72 hours total or more, your put into the semi-friend to friend zone and it'll take a lot of DHVing and making her go through an emotional rollercoaster. You said your playful naturally, then here's what i'd do.

you txt her and she doesn't respond

the next time you see here and she says hey you go:
"what?"
she says again
"what?"
and you keep getting closer pretending to not hear until your satisfied
then you say how now she knows the feeling of being unaswered too (and wink to remind her of how she was being bad) then do kino escalation, DHV, and go in for a kiss close sooner rather than later.

Don't forget to tell us how it goes mate, Cheers

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Welcome to the community man. And don't apologise about your English, it's much better than my Spanish!

This one isn't over in my opinion.

I'd lay off the texting for a while. Go back to the coffee shop and act casual (not too needy)

Keep us updated and we can advise

Scamp