OK guys so i need your help. Usally im good at telling if a girl is flirting. But this girl is Hb10, ONe of the best looking girls i know. She lives like ages away but have met her and we mostly talk online now.

The thing is im not sure if she is being serious (flirting giving IOIs or if she is fucking me around)

To break it down first, she has always been one to be 'jealous' if you will on my fb page and say something underneath almost Everyy status i write. Although they are intersting if i may say so myself And If there are pics of me and other girls she leaves a comment saying that 'im pimping' or 'i have it sorted' ect

We basically had this big convo about how people use each other these days ect, lead to getting to ask how many girls/guys she has slept with. I say i didnt know you were bi? she replys with something like 'yeah well i find girls attractive. But sometime i like a good cock as well!' (now here wshe could of said that she likes a guy from time to time. But she chose to be dirty. THEN she asked about fetishes and fantasies. I got this for a reply. It is very straight up. And thats why im asking you guys

'Id say im very adventurous.. Would try anything atlessed once! I like dressing up, lap dances, stripping, role playing, 3somes, anal, sex in public..
What about you?'

I go onto tell her some of mine. Rope, and 3soms are hot..

she says 'I guess so, but im not a greedy lover.. I love making a guy cum!
Yeah ive had 4 3somes with a guy and a girl. Ive always wanted to meet a guy that would let another guy join! Thatd be incredibly hot :d
Public, but not public enough that we'd get full out caught haha
Blindfolds and handcuffs ard hot.. Never done ropes before tho!
I dont think you weird at all.. Its sexy! '


NOW ofcourse there were little messages between this convo. But this is the root of it. I havent replied back, cause it got to late, and i couldnt be bothered.

But from what i have told you...what do you think. Take in note this girl has ALL the guys after her and is extremly pretty. Was she writting this and laughing? Or being serious?

might i add before she sent that last message i replied with. 'wow seems like your into some pretty interesting things, to bad im more attracted to girls with darker hair' (she knows this since ALL my ex gfs have had black or dark brown hair)

I'd would think to treat this with a freeze out. Wait a while longer than usual to respond to something, or if she tries to IM you say that you have to go do something (mow the lawn, meet up with friends, whatever). Stop talking about sex, and if she brings it up again I'd be more inclined to lean towards IOIs than joking. See, this is the problem with online conversations, its so difficult to pick up on tone and body language. Look up IOIs and nearly all of them deal with a woman's tone of voice and body language, because we convey far more truth in those than the words we actually use.

Besides, even if she's serious, it's all wasted until you actually spend time together in person. So my take is to freeze her out, let her come back to you, see if sex comes up as a topic again. Before you talk about sexual topics with her, try to arrange something where you two can hang out.

thanks! I guess you have a point. Its just knowing, is kinda hot! Like she is unbelievable hot, i might try post a pic later haha. She is doing very well for modeling in my country at the moment. And she lives like 8 hours away, i see her like twice a year. But as i said we are real close online. So don't say anything untill SHE brings up sex again?

First off - how old is this girl? I'm inclined to think that she's ikely not as experienced as she says. I know this because when I was younger I used to say things like that all the time to guys, because I thought it was what they wanted to hear. A woman who is truly experienced and knows men will probably be a little more private and mysterious.

Use this fact to your advantage.

Firstly do not bring up sex again. In fact, actively steer the conversation to more serious topics. Let her believe that she has not gotten to you. She wants your attention. She wants you to think of her sexually. Don't be the guy who is falling all over himself to see her on webcam. She is far away. Continue the friendship and when you get to see her in person, then game as usual.

that makes sense, thanks. She is 20. She said she has had sex with 7 guys and been with a few girls. Just fyi.

Doesn't matter. The details of what she says do not matter to us, and they shouldn't matter to you. In fact, you need to forget about most of what she said in order for this to work. If you can't brush aside the sexual comments she makes, how are you going to go for an extended period of time without talking about sex? It'll be a hell of a lot tougher if you're thinking about it a lot, and this is one of the best way for you to pull anything off with her.

We've all pondered if a girl is actually making fun of us when she talks about these things. The best way to play them off is to turn a cold shoulder to the remarks and topic of sex itself. When the time comes, we will see exactly how into sex she is. Here's what I do;

HB10 - I like anal, 3sums, and making dudes cum and swallowing blah blah

dw3llz - Hm... ok. Surely there's more to you than an adventurous sex life?

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