Can anyone offer me any advice please?

Met a HB8 who was a friend of a friend in a bar. Took her back to her friends and f-closed. I like her. She said that she's living with a guy, but is leaving him in two weeks as the relationship is over, she has another apartment laid on, etc. and the guy doesn't know but it is completely over - they have had seperate rooms for ages.

I messaged her on facebook the next day gave her my number and said 'I had a great time last night. Text me', she replied with her number and said, "Yeah, so did I, , I'll text you soon, x"

Now, I think she is under a bit of stress cus she's leaving this LTR and going to do a bit of a dissapearing trick. I was going to ask her out now, but obviously she can't be seen out with another guy at the moment. We've exchanged messages on facebook every day, but I'm reluctant to start texting in case it makes it awkward for her with her soon to be ex-BF. I want to ask her around to my place, what is the best way of doing this? Or how would you handle this?

I'm thinking of 'So, 'nickname' do you want to come around mine one night to chill out? .

Sounds a bit lame

Thanks in advance!

"hello i am going out for one coffee if you would like to see me again come there" and then it should be a problem to take her to your home

Maybe saying something like "I know you're under a lot of pressure right now, and I don't wanna get you into anything that you're not ready for. However, if you feel like getting away from all that, if only just for a while, you can come by to hang out with me."

This way, you're not being pushy, but rather you're offering her something. And this something is exactly what she needs in this situation, rather than just being something that she really can't fit into her really tight schedule right now.

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"I'm going out on "so and so day" come by if you fancy, it'll be fun" Sometimes be direct. If she is under some pressure, she will probably want a change of scenery anyway and having fun will sound good.

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Come to think about it, I like the other suggestions above better than mine. =)

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And the Award for worst advice of the week goes to...

*Drum roll*

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Thanks very much for all your replies, greatly appreciated. I'm gonna sleep on it and then use your advice to ask her,

cheers,

Yeah, I'm just glad I managed to get that I-changed-my-mind post in before you said so. You're totally right. =)

AFC is the word of the day.

Edit: One of the reasons why my advice was so bad is that it says "hey, let's hang out all on your terms, whenever it suits you. I'm hardly ever up to anything good anyway, so I'm just gonna sit around here and wait for you like the sucker that I am."

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