Okay guys, need some advice here.

32 year bloke living in Sussex.

I've relatively recently got into Game and due to a lack of wingmen have been
sarging solo.

Check out my previous posts for background

So I have recently been out three times with two local wings (similar age to myself).

Sarging with different people is an eye opener we all have widely different styles, but it's great to go out sarging with WINGMEN (rather than mates)

However last night was a stinker for me, opened nothing. But I can't help but think we are aiming at the wrong venues.

Feel free to correct me here but each night out we have gone to small town clubs where the girls are generally 17-21 and almost exclusively in groups with lads of the same age.

Now don't get me wrong here, I am sure guys of my age can pull girls of this age group.
But I can't help but feel that a club is the wrong place.

I remember when I was in my early twenties and the older guys in the clubs always looked a bit obvious.

It just seems to be using my age as a DLV rather than a DHV.
eg. I come across as an older pervy bloke desparate to shag a young woman, rather than being the hot older guy they meet at french classes or some shit.

I mean to me a small town club is a place you go when you are younger with your mates just to get wasted and have a damn good time.

I really want to make a go of sarging with these guys and increase all or successes

So my question is;

Where do you older sargers sarge?
Late bars where mid-late 20's girls hang out?
Day game?

Would love to hear from guys in similar positions


Best

Scamp

Maybe you need some younger friends. Some guys around 27-28 who can make you seem younger, and less obvious by association. 32 is by no means old, and can certainly bag a younger chick, but you don't want to be the lone man in a room full of boys.

I would check out more upscale venues, where there will be older people (since older people usually have more money to go to nicer places). Also sarging in bar/restaurant scenarios might be a better option since girls often go out to those type of places without dudes their own age.

Stay out of areas near college, and focus on more elite locations. Luxury shopping districts are a great place to pick up mid-twenties beautiful women. Day game is a good supplement, but casual sex is always easier to achieve after dark.

Also - I would highly recommend getting a pivot to come out with you, if you have one. Three older guys at a young club standing around seems creepy. But if they have a beautiful woman with them and are laughing and enjoying themselves...it just looks better.

coffe shops and strangely enough librarys are great day game places

Cheers Zephyrine,

Particularly like the bar/restaurant scenario.

and Herne, yeah coffee shops rock, although most of my local ones shut at about 6ish which kinda blows as I am usually working when they are open.