Hey guys, I've got a problem and I need some feedback from you PUA's out there !

I met this girl on this ski trip organised by the greek society of my university, we talked about 2-3 times over the 3 day trip. I was introduced by a mutual friend and from there it was just casual.
After the ski trip, a few days later I added her on Facebook. I approached her the first 3 times whenever I saw her on, then I stopped to see if she would approach. Then the next day she approached me, this is when I decided to ask her out after a little chatting. I asked her if she wanted to go out in 2 days time, but she was busy, I told her no worries another time. We continued chatting for 5 mins and I said to her "think ill jet ! ps wats ur number and we'll organise som otha time to go for a coffee" she gave me it and replied "see u then :) sweet dreams xx" which sounded positive.
That was a Tuesday night, after that I avoided fb and I messaged her on sunday morning. Don't know why, must have been the hangover but messaged her at 10am saying something like "I just woke up and I thought of you, are you busy on monday night" she then replied that "she isn't allowed out during the week, because of university".. then i replied with general convo and she didn't reply and I dont know why..
I left it at that, the next time I messaged her was on the following thursday night.. I wrote " Congratulations" and she replied "for what :/" me: "Congratulations. I was just thinking of you" and she didnt reply btw i think shes shy she's 18 and I'm 20.. (i was trying to be cute :S) I know, dont tell me, to early !
Ok, the next week we spoke on fb once, I approached.. Then on the friday when I was driving home from university, I called her while I was stuck in traffic, and she picked up straight away, and we talked for about 5mins. (stopped because she doesn't talk while driving.

Know I'm stuck I'm thinking I need to just STOP ! As I'm doing to much ! I should have realised, but because I liked her I kinda forget the make her chase you as well, don't just call and text and approach more than what she does.

So what do I do I've avoided messaging or any other form of contact for the last week. Is it a lost cause should I just forget about her move on, I'm guessing the only way I would still have a chance is if she messaged or called or something, otherwise its over...

Would it be cool to send a message after like 2 weeks of no contact saying something like "Hey, hows it goin stranger" or just calling on a friday using the traffic as an excuse and try again. AAAAAAA ! :S

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Awesomeee

Do not do anything you have done already!!!!

It sounds like you did try a little hard on this one, but it is not a lost cause. You some will be delving in some very deep waters known as one-itis, unless you can close or move on very soon. Time to make a plan!

A simple plan; arrange a night out with a bunch of friends. Make sure you have guys and girls attending! Try to get this girl to come. Make it a friday/saturday night since she can't do weeknights. Go bowling. Go Clubbing. Go hiking, go-karting, it really doesn't matter, as long as you make it a fun night! If she flakes on you one more time, i'd call it a done deal, and move on. She was definitly interested at first, so try to revert to whatever initially attracted you to her.



dw3llz note: Btw bro, ur at college!!!! You have a major abundance of women. Move around, enjoy yourself. Go to parties! If you need to get a little action, it's very easy at uni. My favorite routine is walk up to a girl who's drinking (while I'm not) and say, "So I feel like I'm the only one not drinking and I was wondering if it was possible to have as much fun as you! "

Hb - blah blah, why dont u drink? (cuz ur driving that night or something)

dw3llz - (Light bulb moment) "Let's play truth or dare!"

Hb - "OK!"

dw3llz - "I dare you to/not to make out with me" There is key to this. Raise ur eyebrows, wink, laugh, but most importantly give her the sexual eye! Now if you have comfort built with her, or you feel she is initially attracted, say "I dare you TO make out with me." If you have yet to feel she is hooked, "I dare you NOT TO make out with me."

She will either laugh, or go in for the kiss. Works well on the 10s, not so well on the 6s.

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-dw3llz