Alright so I've been hanging out with this HB7 for a couple of weeks now. I met her in class. Did the whole opening thing and have been hanging out with her couple times a week. Normally she is the one that initiates meeting up. I've been dropping in some kino and trying to escalate the best I can with our conversations. I'm still having trouble K-closing her. She hasn't dated a lot of people and can be kinda awkward in one on one conversations. She never really gives me the opportunity to K-close her though. She even slept in my bed with me the other day after we went out drinking with a couple of my friends. She is one of those girls that hangs out with guys more than girls though. Her body language and tonality toward me though are different than when she is with other guys which I took as an IOI. So thats basically where I stand. Should I be aggressive about a kiss close or should I let her come to me?? Any thoughts opinions/suggestions would be great. Thanks

Even in lesbian relationships, one girl has to be dominant and initiate or nothing happens. You need to be the dominant lesbian and man up already. She spent the night in your bed and you didn't even kiss? The only times I can think of that a girl would put herself in this position and genuinely not expect something to happen is if she knows the guy is gay or if she is just friends with the guy and doesn't even realize he has a penis. If she doesn't think of you like that, then she expected something to happen and you let her down. It's just a kiss, it might be awkward going for it, but things will always be weird if you want to do it and just don't.

Be aggressive to bring it home or else look beta & get put in the friend zone.

You should have went for th kiss when u were in bed with her then escalated to sex right there.

Doing things like laying in bed together w.o. Making q move is real friend zone material.. Stop that.

Well the only reason I didn't is because she passed out in literally like 30 seconds. I think thats one of my main problems anyhow is being able to escalate efficiently. Should I even bother to keep trying or just move on?