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So are you saying that you can't order a cup of coffee at Starbucks or a sandwich from a local deli unless a dude is working the counter? What do you do when you have to pee real bad and there's only a girl to ask for info? Pee in your pants? Whats's tye difference in these engagements compared to the ones 'you can't do'?
No i don't say that,i say that when i am talking whit a girl with who i intend to do something more i feel funny,how do i eliminate desire?
Realistically, if you see a hot girl working the register at Starbucks, I'm sure you want to bang her too. But I'm sure you still manage to order yourself a Grande whatever. You do this because you have other tasks in mind. You're reading the menu, you're figuring out what you want, then you order. perhaps you'll share some pleasantries. And this isn't a "fake time restraint" but a real one. You gotta get going and let others order their coffee and let the girl get back to work. Well, you just opened the Starbucks register girl.
So keep it at this level for now. Don't even bother looking for a close. Just chat with girls as PEOPLE DO ALL THE TIME. You do this 10 times and you won't need a routine. Why? Some girls will CLING to this and continue the conversation for you. They will want to "blah, blah, blah" all day long. Eventually, you'll figure out a way to direct the conversation towards intimacy. But no matter what, you're the one who needs to open that opportunity.