ok so im a mid 20 virgin *sucks but i dont care, just never worked out for me*.. and telling women im a virgin is pretty much a no go for me since they get the idea that "something is wrong"..

anyways, when the time comes up, im pretty confident, will they be able to sense a lack of experience? i know i wont be laughing or something goofy.. im pretty fit so i figure i can work it when time comes.

watched enough porn to get some ideas on how to handle business. and talk like you had a few before.

You say you're "pretty confident" - well keep that confidence up and women will not be able to "sense" that you are inexperienced.

However, if you don't know what you are doing at all, women will be able to TELL without a shadow of a doubt that you are inexperienced.

There is nothing wrong with being a virgin.

If you tell women you are a virgin by choice because you never wanted to lose it to anyone back in your youth, I don't think they could hold that against you. Of course, it does depend on the type of women you are going for but i know I wouldn't assume "something was wrong"

If you have watched porn and you know how to touch a girl and have learnt that way, then you should be ok. It is always awkward having sex with anyone for the first time (whether both or either or neither parties are virgins) so the girl might just see it as the first time with her awkwardness instead of the first time ever awkwardness.

Anyway good luck!!

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....Thought you might like a girl's opinion....

well, generally the sex in porn, and actual sex don't have all that much in common except for the same bits being used. So don't rely too much on that for your knowledge. If you wanna know the best way to be confident in bed, watch some of that porn for women. It's more realistic and less male dominant. Being confident and dominant are very different things.

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ok, and in porn its rather hung guys in that, and in real life average is good right? lol

As Stand Up said porn is very unreliastic, and with regard to size it depends on the girl.. as you have no expierence, watching "2 Girls Teach Sex" might show you some cool positions.