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PostPosted: Sat Aug 07, 2010 7:11 am 
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I've studied human expertise for a while now, and there are major things that arise. First to become a master at most skills (World class level) you need to put in 10,000 hours of practice. Regardless of your IQ, initial talent, or personal strength when you begin. It does not happen sooner, it's always around 10,000 hours.

There is however an exception. Social skills, specifically this one, get picked up much faster than say boxing or golf. In fact, instead of years to become extremely proficient it happens in months.

Playing a guitar is extremely confusing when you first start, how many scales did I know when I began? None, I knew 4 notes, and I played crappy diddies with them. Then you expand, you learn an entire scale and how to play it, then you learn a second octave. You move on to chords, learn them. Soon you realize you know your guitar inside and out, and all it took was baby steps and practice. Then an interesting thing happens, you start to connect the notes you hear in your head when you think your own tune up with the fingerings on the guitar, and music happens.

It's the same with game, just keep adding notes. Notes like "Reaching the hook point", "Disqualification" or "Avoiding interview questions". Soon the music in your head of how you want the interaction to go will channel into your actions correctly. You won't consciously be thinking that you need to disqualify, you'll just do it.

But there's a caveat... You can't go out and do what your doing. You need to go out and make an effort to learn each "note". In the words of Albert Einstein, insanity is doing the same thing over and over again, and expecting different results. Don't say the same thing you normally do, make it your mission to go out and practice negs. Go out and practice DHV conserving qualification, go out and reach the motherfucking hook point.

In short, How do you build attraction in a woman? The same way you eat an elephant, one bite at a time. Never look at the big picture of everything you need to learn. It just daunts you. I'm currently picking away at qualification and the Apocalypse Opener, what are you going to pick away at?


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