Hi guys, I'm almost 18 year old boy who has low degree of cerebral palsy. Due to that I'm not allowed in night clubs and pubs because there are lot of jerks here and I may get my ass kicked. I have several rejections on my belt . Attending english courses now and I used my "skills" to persue women but I see the bitch shield, Even though she comes with me on a date, etc... She is well reserved with this shield and I'm really pissed off(Not depressed duh ) So give pick up advices with the changes which a guy with CP must make.
2. Big part of my humor comes to my head 10-20 sec after her response.. Give advice and dry training.

I will be very pleased to hear your comments on this

One key thing: don't let your disability define you! Get rid of that limiting belief.

I listened to an interview of what of David D's friends, who's 3 feet tall and in a wheel chair. He gets laid, no joke. So ignore your disability and go with the usual material!

His name is Sean Stephenson and he is freaking awesome. Do a youtube search on him. He has spoken to congress, is a motivational speaker, has his own business, and all kinds of crazy shit like that.

Im a fellow disabled person and my friend, I can honestly say that it has turned out to be one of the most distinguishing characteristics of myself that I wouldnt trade for the world.

The first thing that I have to say about disabilities is that, yes, you are at a "physical" disadvantage compared to most much like I. But, I believe that whatever is taken from someone is given elsewhere.

It took me a long time to become comfortable with myself but with alot of hard work and positive thinking, I've hit a level of self confidence a man without these issues would cave. You have that in you too. By overcoming this glaring obstacle in your life, you can have a level of self confidence that a vast majority of people in this world couldn't dream to touch, even guys that have great success with women.

Another thing I have noticed about disabilities, and it takes a long time to understand and come to terms with, is that having a disability is sort of a...."filter" for lack of a better word, that will almost automatically separate the low quality women that judge your disability from the wonderful caring women that look past it. And there ARE women out there that are like this. Dont believe for a second every girl hones in on your condition and thinks horrible thoughts about you.

Now, we cant read there minds and we cant see this division with the naked eye but it's there. The only way to find that quality woman is through.....approach. Women will be nice and push you away discreetly, some women will be alot more blunt because of your condition. Those women were never worth your time. So, how can you possibly feel "bad"? Nature has weeded out the low quality woman without ANY work on your part and saves you alot of heartache.

A woman that gets to know you and falls for your personality and compromises and tries to understand your disablility is of the highest quality that we have the privilege of being able to spot above all the other guys that arent disabled.

Disabilities ARE a disadvantage...if you choose it to be. We can be miserable and feel sorry for ourselves but the world will move on without us and wont give us any mercy. Be that strong person that this disability has made you inside, carrying around your condition your life should give you the respect of the world and you deserve it. You put up with shit that you didnt choose to have, but your still here fighting the good fight along with the best of them. There's nothing you need to feel insecure or afraid of.

If I got a little deeper than your OP was intending, I apologize but this topic hits close to home with me. You dont need to change a damn thing to conform to your disability. If I can offer any advice, embrace your condition. It's a part of you. Trying to find ways around it will burn you and will never resolve your insecurity with it.

But really, PM me if you want to talk in any length about this. I didnt mean to write such a big post but on this topic, words tend to flow right out of me haha.

PS - Sean Stephenson (sp?) Watch the DVD Attracting Women by David DeAngelo. Not only will you get good info in general from this but look for this guy. He gives an insight to coping with imperfections and becoming a confident man that noone else can even touch. You'll see exactly why.