Hey guys


Sending a shout out for some help... picked up a girl the other week (in a pizza shop - so excellent game), and number closed. Took her on a date the other night, and it went pretty well although my game was down because of a mild bout of tonsilitis.. which i tried to cover up.

she sends me an SMS the next morning saying she didnt feel a connection...

guys, how can i recover this situation.. ?? any hints as to how i can a.) sms her to get her out with me again , and b.) tips for building that connection... or getting that attraction up

any fellow PUA's that can Help me out, that would be awesome - this chick is a 10 !!!

i'm afraid i don't have pearls of wisdom on this. except never go out on a date if you're sick.

i got a 'no connection' text from a girl last year after a date. i just walked away from the whole thing and moved on. to me 'no connection' is like the biggest flag for 'waste of my time'. I say this in contrast to a girl saying "I don't know you that well", for example. no connection is more final, even from creatures whose actions don't match their words 90% of the time.

if you must pursue this, then i think you must withdraw for a spell...

They basically break this card out of the deck when they dont want to have a Day 2 with you, and there's really no way out of that situation. Best thing to do is let this situation cool off for a while and decide later on whether or not she's worth getting back in contact with.

It's MUCH better to break a date than to wing it with an illness.

thanks guys

I will let it go for a little while, and after a cooling period then i was thinking of going down the 'lets hang out as friends' path (as she is new to town and doesnt know anyone).

from there at least it gives me the opportunity to run some game back on her again, and see if i can break back in. I read somewhere about breaking down the 'lets just be friends' barriers by strategic use of game like kino, and then withdraw.. i didnt run full on game on her the first time around so maybe it might be worthwhile ramping it up if the opportunity arises ???

what do you think ?