Idk if I'm delivering news or anything but I'm new so bear w. Me lol.

but I think game is really just a set of attitudes and all these "openers" and rutiens n negs are just placebos for confidence & kinda like just help u fly strait when u lack the attitude u need.

Kinda like a stepping stone to the attitude u need.

But the real game comes from your attitude causing all these techniques to come from a genuine place.. N the confidence comes from comfort from familarity.

I analyze the shit outta everything lol.

The problem is...

When guys go out remembering lines/negs/dhvs/other dumb shit...

A LOT of them, don't do what you're sposed to. You're sposed to work on the 'delivery', it's so you can get used to how to act a certain way.

However, I see most guys standing there statically, staring at the girl/s in some plain boring monotone voice reciting some dumb lines. - This is why it doesn't work.


Personally, I decided to go out and just be normal, no lines, no nothing. Just say whatever, and get used to things that way.


But yeah, mostly it's about how you *are*. What you do. Of course what you say comes into it. But largely these 'lines' and shit are mostly pointless.


You'll likely naturally end up with things you tend to say. Natural canning I guess.



love

~Finesse

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Munroe: "I kinoed the hell out of that goat"
Jav: "bashing chodes 24/7 ftw"
Slywalker: "Neg the bagel"
Slywalker: "I had a 1yr old GF when I was 19"
SS_Trunks:I asked her for an extra pen, confidently....

yeah i think routines are perfect for completely anti social ppl... i mean i can socialise with anyone but my worst gaming aspect is kino escalation.
I've been reading some '60 years of challenge' ebooks and his entire concept is that WOMEN love fucking and that i must always remind myself this.ive always been too much of gentleman ass pussy man.... thats one aspect i have to change.

I personally think some of the openers are SO lame its amazing.If i worked up to a 4 set and said ' Hey guys...i need a female opinion : my friend has a gf and she got angry cause he has pics of his ex under his bed bla bla bla' FUCK me that is so damn lame...if i was the 4 set i would be like 'Wtf do you want...we are just chilling'.
Opening needs to be alot more natural or direct....

But DHV's , a few negs, kino escalation : that is what i love about this community. So many ideas and break downs.I still can't believe i was so oblivious all those years and all the basic mistakes (neediness) i was making.

Attitude is everything man...but i guess we can say that about life and not just Game

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Its time for a change....a huge Mother@#$@# change!