i really like this girl and there was some problems between us which included me gaming another girl and she kind found out which she felt betrayed her trust and all. but we're not exclusive or anything.

The thing is she called me yesterday night asking me to tell her the true story about what happened that night. so i just did as i was too tired and wanted to sleep.

Now, how can i gain back her trust and i have abit of a problem talking to her. like i tend to freeze up. unlike when i open to other girls i can talk non stop but when i'm with her my mouth tends to stay shut and not talk alot.


Thanks alot.

to be with her you have to be prepared to lose her.

im not gonna go on about oneitis because this isnt it--you just don't wanna mess this one up right ?

ok try and not make talking to her such a big deal--stop overthinking--stop pre planning what yer gonna say--when talking to her find her worst aspect or flaw and concentrate on it and magnify it--kick her off that pedistal--try and view her as just a sperm receptical

thanks for the info. mind telling mw how to find her weakness? she doesn't really talk much. and i plan to use some cnf on her to make it easier for me to talk to her. any views on that?


and yes i don't want to mess this one up. i tried psycho-ing myself. mess up the date so we have something to laugh about.. but it always fails. damn.

whats the thing about her that you find least attractive--say does she snort when she laughs,does she have a slight mustache,douse she have pimple traces on her forehead ,buck teeth.

CF is ok so long as you can act natural when doing it--im not particularly good at it myself

Best way is to be honest.



And you can have slightly sugarcoated truth if the issue isn't dishonest.


Example... you chatted up some chick.

Be honest about it.

But, say you was only chatting her up to show a friend how 'it's done'.


I was open to a chick about the fact that I hesitated to answer when confronted with the question 'do you have a gf'.

Now, I was totally open and honest about it, and admitted the situation, my thoughts, why, how I'm not tryin to justify blah blah.

now, turns out, the chick learnt of the situation anyway, the fact that I had already owned up to it, probably saved me, as i had been honest. Else it would look as if I'd been 'caught out'.


If you're honest and open. Even the things that aren't so great. It saves you having to explain your way out of something which never seems to work.


Open and honest, man.



Love

~Finesse

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