Besides meeting girls at clubs, raves, parties etc...
How about for social circle game? What are some activities to do with a girl and/with group of friends? Any more tips? And I always hear movies and going out to eat is bad. When do you ever pay for her things?

Find the certainty in the question you just asked...

There is a point where you start to pay for things that girls may want, and if you have just met this girl and she is not attracted, and wants to "hangout" i recomend that you find out a little more about this girl and her friends before you go make uncertain decisions on where to hangout! Where do you like to hangout anyways? who cares what other people say?

and movies and going out to eat are good In my opinion

_________________
Awesome is definitely an understatement

Just remember two important things:

A) Avoid falling into routines or going to the same places over and over again. And also avoid "hanging out" or going on cliche dates. Variety is key, change things up whenever possible.

B) Every place can be an interesting place if you make it so. Museums, bookstores, zoo's, etc. Even window shopping at weird boutiques or hanging out at Wal-Mart can be an exhilarating experience. Where other people see only trees, you should see a forest.

_________________
My Blog: www.solvemygirlproblems.com

I think the absolute best idea is the beach (or lake, river, pool, mudhole, whatever). Why?
It can be done in a group, or one-on-one.
You get to see her in a swimsuit and without makeup.
Its free.
Its outside, active, and pressure-free.
You can grab her (chickenfights, anyone?) without it seeming sexual.
You can transition into evening, or say your goodbyes and keep your night open for new broads.
There are loads of different activities to do.
Did I mention its free?

Dinner and movie dates generally crash and burn. Be different and suggest something that she wouldn't have thought of. You want her to view your lifestyle as this exciting world of new experienced and good times - a sharp contrast from her mundane existence. And of course, don't spend too much money. Placating will get you nowhere.

Other good ideas are a game of handball, shooting range, museum, sports bar to watch a game, shooting pool, costume store (say you have a theme party coming up and need her help picking an outfit), kayaking, rock-climbing (obviously these only work if you have the gear), climbing local trees, going to Costco, bonfire, ouija board in the cemetary.

If you've known her a little longer, ask her to help you cook a complicated dish (creme brulee, paella, ect), come with you to get a tattoo or piercing, babysit your niece, look for a new apartment, ect. Things like this build intimacy very quickly and will help her feel comfortable.

Make it unique.

I mean, as a AFC I used to think places like the cinema were a simple option as you can take them out, without any sort of pressure to make a connection as most of the time your sat there watching a film. You don't have to make any sort of contact!

HOWEVER, this builds nothing. You don't build much comfort, or kino or anything like that. Plus, think of how many guys do the same thing? I think in the UK it's definitely the most popular place.

Today I took someone to the park with a loaf of bread and sat on the floor feeding ducks whilist talking. It doesn't cost the world, you get to know each other and such and you also don't have to buy her stuff. If she's attracted, she's attracted. Whether you buy expensive things such as meals or not.

After that, we planned on going on roller skating (I encouraged her to be more adventurous in her ideas, and this was hers). Unfortunately, it was closing by the time we got there.

She said it was the strangest date she's been on. But in a good way. If you think about it, is a girl going to remember a date at the cinema like she'll have a 100 times or something different? Be imaginative! If she likes singing, take her kareoke (spelling wrong) etc. It will be a lot of fun.

P.S The girl I took the feed the ducks? I k/closed, which she initiated.

unique dates are the best

this is what you seek

5-free-or-inexpensive-day-2s-shell-neve ... light=date

_________________
Every Saint has a Past, Every Sinner has a Future