So some of you may have read my earlier post about me trying to get with a girl whos got a bf. It didnt go well. Below is my summary of what went right and what went wrong.

First I met her at a party, then a BBQ, where we clicked and things went right.
> I was relaxed and being myself.
> I give my honest opinion on things (e.g. what film she liked).
> I included others in our conversation, and spoke to other people.
> I was cocky funny and took the piss abit.
> Didn't acknowledge how pretty she was.
> Didn't speak about myself to much, just told her the basics.
> Wasn't needy at all.
> USED KINO!

Next I went down town with her and we got a bite to eat. About a week later I took her out for a meal then the cinema. (WARNING AFC CONTENT)
> Was nervous as fuck so came across as weird and not talkative.
> Over analyzed everything I did.
> Didn't give my opinion, just agreed with what she said.
> Felt threatened by her beauty and felt shit about myself.
> Spoke about myself all the time and tried to seem 'cool'.
> NEEDY AS FUCK!
> DIDN'T USE KINO!

This has helped me bring closure to her. I have been feeling pretty shit the last few days but now I know where I went wrong so I'm leaving it in the passed and moving on.

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'You're not your job. You're not how much money you have in the bank. You're not the car you drive. You're not the contents of your wallet. You're not your fucking khakis. You're the all-singing, all-dancing crap of the world.'

Well done for being able to see what you did right/wrong, bro.


That's very useful to be able to do.


When you feel yourself getting stuck like that, just relax and let the tension wash out of your body. And just behave the way you know how to. And all should work fine.

Everytime you feel the nervousness of tension, just let it drop. Let it go.


Nice one, bro. Well done.

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Munroe: "I kinoed the hell out of that goat"
Jav: "bashing chodes 24/7 ftw"
Slywalker: "Neg the bagel"
Slywalker: "I had a 1yr old GF when I was 19"
SS_Trunks:I asked her for an extra pen, confidently....

Cheers mate, I feel a lot better after doing this. I may start doing this with most of my nights out, it'll be the best way to learn what works and what doesn't.

I only quit smoking a few weeks ago and I was absolutely dying for a fag that night, I'm sure that added to my AFCness lol.

I'm mostly a very relaxed person, in all situations really, but I really fell for this girl and it totally screwed my game up. Live and learn eh mate.

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'You're not your job. You're not how much money you have in the bank. You're not the car you drive. You're not the contents of your wallet. You're not your fucking khakis. You're the all-singing, all-dancing crap of the world.'