Hello all,

I started my PUA journey a few months back..I am really confident now, great body language and verbal game..but havent F closed yet..But I dont do dance floor game..One of my buddies friends..I met him a few weeks back..He is not at all confident and has zero verbal game..He is not even confident to approach a girl..always the wallflower in bars..But some how he goes to dance floor and manages to take drunk girls home every time..funny thing is he doesnt even dance well..those girls wont even talk to him in normal situations..So here I am practising pua stuff hard and dont even know when am gonna F close..so which is better verbal game or dance game?

P.S: yes am jealous..i am practising hard for past 6 months but no f closes..demotivates me to see total AFCs getting laid easily..

for me to be successfull in dance floor :
i have to be really drunk ...because after you start dancing with a girl for a couple of mins you gotta start rubbing her and maybe even fingering her to make her horney. you gotta be smiling all the time and show everyone you are having a good time ( no one likes to dance with a grumpy person)....dont talk alot on dance floor with the girl you are dancing.....go to gym alot to have a hard body!! and the city is important as well...like in vegas its all about dance floor but in LA you dont dance alot with people around you. i guess thats all i can think of buddy

I'm really curious what the more advanced guys around here have to say about clubs and dancing. The only bit of pick up I've started is direct openers, just being confident and having a conversation. It's fun, and I'm improving. Tonight I went to a club with some friends and I had no idea what I was doing. The only thing that held me together was that I carried myself with confidence -- or at least I did my best. I can't dance, I've never tried.

I just don't know how to "game" when it's so loud I can't even hear my friends yelling in my ear.

dude, physical escalation is your friend.



He is your best friend.



He will get you laid.



He will let girls know you're a sexual guy.



He will get girls turned on by you.



He will let girls know that you know what you're doing (sexually).



Hopefully you and Physical Escalation become really good mates. I'm really good friends with him myself, when me and him are teamed up, that's when I have my greatest success.



Love

~Finesse

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Munroe: "I kinoed the hell out of that goat"
Jav: "bashing chodes 24/7 ftw"
Slywalker: "Neg the bagel"
Slywalker: "I had a 1yr old GF when I was 19"
SS_Trunks:I asked her for an extra pen, confidently....

In other words, appreciate that up to 60% of communication is non-verbal and take advantage of that?

dunno where that %age came from. But sure.

Yeah, that too.

But mainly. Escalate. Non verbally, physically. Verbally. Whatever. Do it slick, like.

I can't really explain how to do it through words, would have to demo it.

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Munroe: "I kinoed the hell out of that goat"
Jav: "bashing chodes 24/7 ftw"
Slywalker: "Neg the bagel"
Slywalker: "I had a 1yr old GF when I was 19"
SS_Trunks:I asked her for an extra pen, confidently....

Allan Pease, "Definitive Book of Body Language".
Thanks, I think I know what you're saying about physical escalation. Do you approach any girl you want on the dance floor or just the ones who give you IOIs?

Depends what mood I'm in.

If I'm proper hyped and wanting to go nuts, then I'll likely open using mainly intense eye contact. Then going off their reaction.

If I'm not so hyped, I will only open those who seem a bit open to me, or who open me. These types I will escalate on hard and fast.

But with other girls, I will judge how open/receptive they are to my escalation then adjust appropriately. Always trying to find ways 'forwards' so to speak.

Make sure your eye contact is hot, peircing, seductive, intense, and that your body language and general actions are confident.


Hope this is help at all.


Love

~Finesse

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Munroe: "I kinoed the hell out of that goat"
Jav: "bashing chodes 24/7 ftw"
Slywalker: "Neg the bagel"
Slywalker: "I had a 1yr old GF when I was 19"
SS_Trunks:I asked her for an extra pen, confidently....

i focus mostly on verbals rather than dance floor, but i wish i could dance. I know dancing will step your game up and give you more options. The dance floor is only a trap if that's all you count on. If you're sarging solo, you could use the dance floor as a way to not be seen standing around.

What I'm talking about in this thread, is appliable on/off the dancefloor. I prefer it off the dancefloor.

when it comes to actual dancing shit, I'm not a great dancer, but I make sure what I do shows the following...

- Leading
- Dominance
- Sexualness
- Finesse

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Munroe: "I kinoed the hell out of that goat"
Jav: "bashing chodes 24/7 ftw"
Slywalker: "Neg the bagel"
Slywalker: "I had a 1yr old GF when I was 19"
SS_Trunks:I asked her for an extra pen, confidently....

yea man if you meet a girl and have some great conversation with her then you hit the dance floor with her and do all those things you listed she'll probably be super attracted to you. But you should invest in lessons. Dancing good will help a lot.

Dancefloor game is easier if you have a great sociale value in a club. If the girls see you as this cool interesting social guy, who talks with a lot of people and seems popular, then she will be easier to dance with.

Winggirls or girls you know well and are befriend with, are great weapons if used well. Take your female friends to the dancefloor. What you then do is just dance with her. Go dancing with her on a location on the dancefloor close to your target, the girl(s) you want. And just dance. And do not simply dance, but entertain your female friend. Show some good dance moves, be pretty close but don't overdo it. The girls close to you will notice it, see your danceskills and will see that you are a lot around women. Then you can leave your winggirl and open your target(s) non verbaly/ while dancing. Have a good energy level, be confident, have a great body language, and nothing can stop you.

If you didn't take female friends/ winggirls with you to a club, then open and game some girls early on in the night there, so that they'll know you later on and will be more receptive thus if you want to dance with them.

If it hapens that you make good eye contact (it has to be said that you will get more eye contact if you're a interesting guy. If you have talked to a lot of people and have built a good social value and status in a club, girls will give you eye contact much easier) then just move your fuc*ing ass and go straight to that girl and go dance with her and make her horny.

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