Whats good gentlemen,

Known this girl for around 8 months, pretty hot and great personality. I go to school with her then starting this summer we started running into each other more frequently because we have the same circle of friends.

We started hanging out one on one and things were going well so I asked her out to dinner and she was down at first then flaked saying she really liked me and trusted me but she was still messed from her ex and didnt want to put herself out there and wanted to be friends in the meantime. I told her it was not the answer I wanted but I didnt want to do it if she didnt. Since then we have talked daily and seen each other probably every second day but have not hooked up.

The reason Im on here looking for help is because I am unsure how to play this one out. I've never really been rejected and then stayed in such close contact with her afterwards.

I'm thinking I should just sit her down and say were either going to see if we are something or should just be friends but can't keep calling and be so close cause its getting kinda weird.

Let me know what you guys think, thanks in advance for your help.

Need to change this. You obviously really like her but 8 months is just too long. In this case I would probably just write her a MASSIVE letter/email letting you know just how you feel and be incredibly articulate. Whilst this most definately is not the ideal situation but it can work. Honesty and openness will improve your game so much its incredible.

"I do wish more men presented themselves and their feelings about me like you did" is the sort of response I get a lot now. I do think that your Inner Game is something that needs a LOT of work. Sorry to not be more positive.

horrible fucking idea, long ass letter = failure, don't do it.

just up the game, and kino

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