Just as the topic says. I'm looking for something more subtle to use on a girl. So not hip hop or break dancing (prolly try to learn those later on).

What I'm looking for is a dance style I can use to impress a girl once I've actually opened her. I hear salsa is good. Is there any other suggestions?

I also figure that learning to dance with a female partner would help my anxieties on the dance floor, somewhat.

Hi! Since I am not comfortable dancing I am asking myself the same question. I've come up with tango. Simply because it's a very sexy dance, you will have to lead and it looks cool in the following clip
... (which I am not allowed to post since I haven't been a member long enough, but just type the following in youtube: "tango antonio banderas take the lead")

I start next week with an introduction lesson. Take a look and let me know what you think.
If you have any questions: just ask.

Dutch Student

I'll admit, it looks really good, but it seems pretty advanced. Even if I were to learn this, it looks like the girl has to know what she is doing as well.

Probably it's pretty advanced stuff they're doing in the clip.
I think this is as easy or hard as learning salsa, because after a few beginner lessons you will have to perform a dance.
I don't know if it's necessary for the girl to know something about this to actually participate.
If it is necessary that's fine with me, because I can than teach her. Which will look a little bit like me leading and kino-ing the crap out of her
If you'd like I will let you know how I'd experienced my introduction lesson.

Dutch Student

Ya that'd be awesome. Have you ever field-tested your tango? I'm more interested in that actually. I plan on learning a dance for sure, it's just that the easier it is for the girl the better for me.

Hi! I haven't field tested tango, simply because I have to learn it first.
I will have an introduction lesson next week, to check if I like it. I will let you know when I've had the lesson. Why where you thinking about salsa?

Dutch Student

I just posted a thing about dance floor rules. Read that first...

Partner dancing like Salsa is good. But it's not always right for the situation. Tightly packed night clubs - forget about it. The girl doesn't know how to dance the style - could get messy...

The best dance to do with a girl is a simple two step. Just have fun, keep beat and get into the groove together. When you are both in sync it's a beautiful thing.

Dance floor game is the most underrated part of the game. With dance floor game, I can go to a club and have multiple woman touching and grinding me all night. Dance is the universal language. I've gotten some pretty intense situations put on me in countries where the girl and I don't even speak the same language.

Most men don't dance. I look around the clubs and see no dancing. Yet EVERY girl wants to dance. If they had a guy who could dance they'd be in heaven. Then I come along and get my hot steppa on and its on and poppin'.

Here's a tip: Imagine you are the woman's pole. You are there to be strong and give her something to work with. You are a moving pole. One that grooves and moves with her body. The double meaning is the meaning here: You are her pole. You are strong enough for her to lean on and moving enough for her to groove with. You are her moving stripper pole.

So don't stress a fancy style (but if you do learn salsa that is high level stuff. Partner dancing is all about the man leading. When you spin her and control her she becomes putty in your hand. Real alpha male stuff.) Till then a good ol' two-step will do. Keep dancing. You get better and better with each encounter.

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Salsa- Chicks love Latin Music, and if you can dance salsa they will get on there knees and unzip on the spot. DHV

Merengue- Very upbeat, fun, and give you yet another sex apeal point. DHV

Break Dancing- Very impressive to the opposite sex, especially girls. I'm not saying you shuold go out and do Headspins and backflips. But some simple Pop n Lock and maybe a Wing Man to do The Bop with is always a good way to show off and DHV

I thrive in the club scene and the party scene, simply becuase I know how to do all 3 of these very well. Goodluck.

Salsa, Rumba, Tango, Samba, Slow foxtrot

Each dance has it's own music style, so it also depends what music you like and what mood you want to create.

Jive, cha cha, foxtrot.. they can all work!

Though do note, most of these dances require the girl to know some moves aswell. But I guess that goes for every dance you dance with a women except some freestyle hip hop, streetdance, breakdance etc

hey...

a good dancing game will certainly give good results but i find dancing quitte entertaining.
however about dancing with eachother - i noticed most girls don't know salsa or certain styles and solo dance styles are often not.
after dancing with some girls ( i do jerking and some freestyle hiphop) who couldn't keep my pace because of the lack of technique - i felt quitte insecure because most dancing doesn't fit certain music.

when it comes to dancing game what do you recommend ( style and inner game ) ?

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1. Fun - The Groove

The groove is most important. A simple groove. With this you can move comfortably to any music and with any dancer. 1. Fun This is the warm up to all the dancing you will do that night.

(Some hips have an accent. But they can all talk.)

Place your weight on your toes. Now move your body from the hip and keep your toes on the ground.

Bring in some of your other moves through style but always keep your feet on the ground. (Then when you get warmed up begin to raise your heel.) Toes on the ground is home base. It is the boxing stance. You optimize your body parts and you are in the best position to groove and be comfortable to and with any music or dancer.

Then you will get some attention.

2. Me and You (The partner dancing)

I find it best to wait until a woman has danced with you to move your feet off the ground. (this can be an energy dance from across the room. Proximity is not needed to dance with another person)

Hips. That's the key. Even if the dance is just a two step. Work that hip. (That's where the hop comes from Use what ever movements you have stored in your memory banks as inspiration for your groove.)

If you got salsa training test out the girl with her ability to keep up with you. Slowly feel her hand and hold it. Push a little to see if she understand direction suggestion. If she can move her hips then she can understand hand on hip direction, easily. If you think she can handle some simple steps. Then you can test out a spin. (Maybe she can dance. Better than you. In that case step up and learn. Be her dancing pole. If you pull off a little dancing on level 3 together then what a show. Everyone watching and you and her are having a great time.)

When you are dancing alone and you move your feet off the ground. You could look corny. If you are doing this fancy step from some place to show off and let the room there's a Dancer! in the room. You could turn people off. Just groove when you alone.
You look corny when you are lifting your feet off the ground and no one is dancing with you. You look like you are trying. (Because you are). You ain't that into the music. We appreciate you dancing but... You loose some strength when doing this unless...

3. Funk Feel Free (The spirit takes you)

(it comes from a true place. You really love this song. You can get up and make noise dance your heart out. Let 'em say "Boy, one night I went to a party and saw a cowboy. They played a cowboy song and he did the cowboy dance! I'll never forget it. If you are not in this state then you look corny. Only honest energy should move your feet.)

If you reach the state of 3. but then you feel conscious of people watching you. (It is because they are. You are dancing. It looks like fun. People are watching. The vibe spreads from you to the room. The girls feel it, they are in tune to it. Fun!. The girls all want to dance and they know you stirred it up. You just made friends.) You are getting attention. Enjoy it. If all that attention has taken you out of that 3 Funky Feel Free state go back to 1. The groove. The feet on the ground. Toes take the weight. And just groove. You back to Alpha. You are Cool Hot and Relaxed

1. Fun - groove.

2. You and me - Partner

3. Funky Feel Free - spirit takes you

Inner game : Feel the energy in the room, and be aware of yours. Be a generator of fun. It's a dance floor.


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Herbal posted something recently about the one time on a cruise ship he went dancing and how fun and shit it was.

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in tango you can teach the woman as you dance, very sexy. If you can dance a good tango whether thats on your back porch, in the bedroom, or in a club you are going to get laid. Women will stand in line. Its not that difficult to learn or teach, try it, the community is bigger than you think. besides you can tell what a womans like in bed by how she dances her tango. very sensual or very aloof. at the bottom is some videos of bachata a very versatile sexy fun dance, it encourages both the man an woman to improvise. has the ability to imrove many skills



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Nightclub 2 step. It's a simple dance move to learn and teach to chicks and they always have fun with it.

I've never liked Latin dancing... It's always looked too choreographed, there's not a lot of individuality. Maybe I'm missing something. I'm not saying I'm a dancer or anything, I like to groove and keep it a little hip hop, but I've been in Latin clubs before and its bad enough the music & half the people there don't speak English, but they all dance the same too and if you don't feel like doing salsa, you're out of place.

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