"I just wanted you to know so that you didnt get the wrong end of the stick. I like you a lot and your a lovely guy but SPAM im not looking for a relationship. I'm being selfish and concentrating on mself for a bit. SPAM my career comes first and I dont even know if I'll be in the country anymore come christmas.
I hope this wont ruin our friendship, Im sorry if this has upset you, please let me know how you feel."

Doesnt bother me if it is a LJBF speech - I wasnt after a relationship either and I NEVER brought it up, either way. I'm just finding what she's trying to tell me confusing.
k-closed and slept with but not f-closed this one.

Girls say one thing and mean another. Maybe her logical mind is saying that she just wants to be firends but she still wants you. I think she's just presenting you with a challenge.

"I would say that you totally respect where she is coming from with that and want to help and support her whereever you can. And you hope that this doesn't mean you still can't spend time together."

then take her out and be a perfect gentleman until you can isolate her and then do something to shock and delight her, I believe you say phase shift. Use surprise so that she can't really put up resistance and her emotions will do what they want, which is be with you.

thats a ljbf speech especially since she said 'ruin our friendshp'

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Was 90% sure it was a LJBF cos she mentioned the friendship. Just the was she's written it was throwing me.

Its been 3 weeks since i've had that text off her. I've moved on and pretty much forgotten about her anyways. Was just gonna be a booty call. I think I can do better this "LJBF" is NOT bothering me in the least, just need to understand the logic...

She's always phoning me on the weekend to come see her when im drinking in her town or to come to the club she's at (5 or 6 missed calls b4 i realise shes ringing me lol).
last friday she rang and rang me for a lift home when she finnished work (I was out drinking with friends, so couldnt, but wouldnt have anyways) and she's definatly hovering on my FB profile cos she replies to a lot of my wall messages.

THAT kinda behaviour is confusing me.

this is a typical thing of she'll k close get remorse for doing it (for whatever reason) then try and be nice by saying lets just be friends and then try and avoid at all costs, basically rather then say i dont want to touch you or come near you again she'll say let be friends, they wont be rude they give you the age old kick down lets just be friends

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I'd still like to see what others would recommend for a response. Everyone seems to be talking about the actual convo and its effects, but how about a good reply to that or a good response? Keep in mind that Driver doesn't want an actual relationship with her.

''yeah sure thats not a problem'' would be what id say and then behave as if your happy to be just friends and hang out--she''ll come on to you in her own time--she wouldnt be ringing otherwise

"i have enough friends".

Q. why did you kiss her, sleep with her, but not fuck her?

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She wants your attention, but isn't attracted to you. Sounds like you're in her emotional Spank Bank.