Hi

I just had 2 girls over at my dorm

They knew I was sexually interested and i knew I COULD have some action.
I know they wanted it too or else they wouldnt come to my house.

however I met them yesterday in the nightbus back home, so we didnt know each other that well.

Well here comes the fuck up part. They came, and I got insecure, i didnt know what to do.
so they were in a leading position at my own house (bad game )
also we were playing this drinking game, but it went way too fast cuz i was too concentrated on the game instead of having fun with them.
I just flat out told them i felt insecure and that it was due to my ex gf. they were understanding at first but they were kinda hot so in the end they were texting other guys at "my party" lol

i dunno, feels like i fucked up. i hope they wanna be friends cuz i dont have many.
they left with an excuse. i hugged them goodbye (lol gay)

anyway i fucked up.

now here's the question, how would you guys fix this shit? It seems I got pretty far, they came over and stuff and i could have had action. its just that i fucked up good in the end


also how do you party? I think im way too serious in my head to party. im stuck in my own head a lot of the times. I think a lot. How do you guys have a good time at a party?
I've never had a really good time at a party, im mostly the outcast and i cant relax in that setting.

need help

also They asked If I could invite any friends of my own
I have this a lot, also when i open sets they ask "Where are your friends?" a lot.
i see it as a polite way to say fuck off.

truth be truth i go out alone, dont really have any friends lol but thats dlv so i usually lie they already went home or something.

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Because girls don't like sex.. Yeah RIGHT!
Why else do you think girls have P*ssies

Work on your inner game.
You got the chicks there but you still need a bit of work. Remember: Always have something better to do. You need to have friends, go get friends. Having friends will boost your social ability and you'll gain confidence when around other people, go make friends with total strangers (safely of course).

Then, when you've built yourself up, host a party and invite them, but make it an actual party with more than just you. Then socialize, become the star of the party by DHV then take them to another room and bam.

I always feel comfortable around friends. Maybe have a real party and take em back to your room. And just think when you are in that situation, "They are HERE in MY dorm, not Johnny Football Players, but MINE. They are here for sex and I should to lead it to a sexual conversation and get them in my room."

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Do unto others as you would do unto them.