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Breex18
PostPosted: Sun Jul 25, 2010 10:53 pm 
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I've never had a bf but ive never really wanted one until this year. I had a very serious case of one-itis and last for about 7-8 months but i think im finally over it.

Anyways, can anyone shed some light on how i can get my confidence back? This guy really screwed me over. We were set up sorta and everything was going great for about a month. we texted/talked online, but then his bff told my bff that he was talking shit about me saying i was ugly and just mean things like that. WTF happened?! he said all the right things and made it sound like he liked me. if he didnt like me then why even waste time talking to me?
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guy's don't like to seem like we are in a serious committed relationship just like you don't like to say you are in a casual, friends with benefits, relationship with a guy. So if people start asking if we are in love sometimes we start picking out flaws in girls so that it doesn't sound like we think she's "the one".
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how old are you?

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so you understand how big of a deal social value is in your situation?

basically, he was likely interested, but didn't think his friends would approve.

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You're a teenager. This pain is part of growing up. Most teenage guys are going to be immature. Forget about him, he's not worth your energy. Go out and meet new guys. Look a little deeper next time before you invest yourself emotionally. But don't let this one experience color your impression of men in general.
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All of the above are true. I gotta mention though he's probably immature if he's saying that stuff :| and I'm pretty sure you don't want an immature bf.

It's tough to get back confidence after a spell of oneitis. Just go have fun with your friends. Make new friends as well. Get some ties with the cool kids if you don't already. Social proof plays a really big part in teenagers' lives. Just be cool with everyone. In no time guys will start getting crushes on you. Only problem is they'll be too shy to talk to you :wink:

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