Alright, the title is a little harsher than my feelings, but hey, start off with a bang right?

Short Background story:
I dated this girl for 13 months in highschool, she is extremely beautiful and I enjoyed the days I spent with her. Because I didn't have a car at the time I had asked my very close friend and nephew Tyler to take us to the movies and other fun spots. I was very happy that they got along together so well (mainly because my other nephew(his brother) seemed to not like her at all). Well, at the end of the relationship when she broke up with me("Because I am too sexual") I figured out that she was cheating on me with Tyler for the last month of our relationship(In which they fucked constantly). Talk about keeping it in the family.

It's been 3 years since and I have buried the hatchet, I handled this realization very well and didn't try to hurt the guy; I figured that if I beat him up she wouldn't be back with me, and it wouldn't reverse time, so what's the point? All I did was avoid Tyler until my wounds healed. I am completely fine with what has happened now after a bad depression period and I've bunked in the same bed as the guy and we socialize like nothing's happened, it's all good.

So: Now that I've been training to become a PUA I have this urge to use my newfound skills and knowledge to get into her pants (We never fucked). Well, SPAM I am at Tyler's house for a couple of days and she comes over tomorrow, I want any advice on what to do in the sticky situation, and special ways to do a routine or just general tips.

P.S. I know that this could seem wrong, but I'm not going to destroy the girl, and I don't really want him to find out, I've just had a long past of wanting to bang her and I know that I have the ability now, so why not? And I don't have hard feelings for either of them.
Ah! I really need to know how to break the akward ice that she's going to have when she sees me.
Oh and one more thing: They stay in his room practically all day, there will be very little time to actually see her, so I need something that's going to be short but effective.
Also, in our relationship we escalated to me eating her out (with my Buddah-length tongue) twice, , no bj's and no sex.

And I know I'm going to get some troll rage from this by someone, saying "I shouldn't do it" for whatever reason, but I know that 2 wrongs don't make a right. I have no intent on hurting anyone. Thank you very much for your time

I dunno man, its tough to seduce a girl who you already have so much of a history with. She already knows so much about you.

If there's still attraction left for you in her then you need to do something that will both shock and delight her to get it out of her. You have to do something so surprising that she won't know how to react, then you escalate very very quickly, before she even knows what's going on.

I can't tell you what to do because, with such a long history, the standard canned stuff isn't going to work. You can't control what she knows about you at this point so you need something good.

that is all i have to say

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There is nothing right or 'wrong' about what you're trying to do. It's just lame. She's with him because you sucked and they wanted to fuck each other, not because he or she went out of their way to to fuck you over. The very fact that you still have this chip on your shoulder simply shows your immaturity.

3 years!?!? Come on... Go out and chat up 100's of other girls who are around you all the time. If you're not doing this, you're still the chump who got his itty itty heart hurt 3 years ago. No cube or do I look like a drug dealer routine will change this reality until you can move beyond your narrow mindedness. Progression, not regression. Once you come to this realization, not only will you have those 100 girls eating out of your hands, this girl will also want a piece of the action... do you understand what I'm getting at?

Hate to quote out a few blurbs but....wow....
STOPSTOPSTOPSTOPSTOP. It pained me to even quote that but I cut through all of that bullshit and this is what I got out of ALL of that.

The last thing you need in this situation is a routine or a few lines, you NEED A CLUE. Im usually alot more...understanding in my replies but this situation just enrages me. I dont really know where to begin but here goes...

She regularly visits Tyler's house? Always in his room? And YOU'RE acting like you fucked THEM over? I give you all the credit in the world for forgiving your cousin or whatever he is but knowing how that hurt you, they both still continue to see each other? And not even secretely, right in front of you while you sit there with your hands folded and watch in the corner.

You let this happen to yourself. That's the truth. You didnt take control of this situation and now it's far beyond you're control. Swooping in and trying to resolve this and get the girl is useless and you know that. You need to move on. Plain and simple, you will NOT get the girl and you will NOT walk away from this any better if you try and fix it.

Take control of your situation man, if you've really been learning PUA then go out and use it! Dont learn it to get the girl that got away. And honestly, she's the lowest form of woman if you ask me. Including you're cousin to do that to you. "There will be little time to see her"....Really dude.....really? And you think she's gonna hop on your dick all of a sudden because you know a few pick up lines and have a little game now? No.

You went into a bad depression caused by THEIR actions. They continually flaunt their relationship in front of you afterwards...I dont even understand the through process going on here man.

This goes SO much deeper than this situation. You have to man up and set boundaries for yourself and others. Be a man. If you're trying to get anything out of this, you have self-esteem issues. Noone I have ever known has been such a glutton for self-punishment as you.

Go meet all the great women that are out in this world and build GREAT relationships with them. And dont you dare use the excuse of "Well, I was on a mission to fuck her" Well, your buddy Tyler did it in a fraction of the time that you havent done yet so...mission failed.

I dont like being mean like this but I cant stand when guys have this little respect for themselves and its sad. There's such a big world out there with wonderful women and learning PUA is the first step to having that life. Stay in that house and try to get your old girl back and you WILL be disappointed, and it wont go away the next day. Approach women and face rejection and humiliation with a grain of salt and you'll be so close to having women at your feet you can taste it.

Self-confidence.....get some. Please. For your OWN sake. This is your life. Trying to fix the past will never give you the future you want.

Amen.

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Failure was never an option


Because girls don't like sex.. Yeah RIGHT!
Why else do you think girls have P*ssies

Actually I feel you man, Im in a similar situation with my ex gf, except for the guy that she cheated with is not my cousin.
I think ur best bet would be to appear you have your own life all together, you don't need her but be polite.
stay busy and act as if there are 10 girls waiting for you to fuck them. walk arround in the house texting girls a lot on your cell phone. say the casual "hi" to that skank your nephew is fucking. she will wonder. also use amoggers on your nephem in a c&f way.
appear moved on. don't expect to get any ass though.. but you will fuck with their minds and also appear more pua. there is a small chance u gonna lay her, but its not impossible.

I do think the previous post from Solteris is so good. I could learn so much from him. He is absolutely right about the situation.

thats what i think, my 2 cents.

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Because girls don't like sex.. Yeah RIGHT!
Why else do you think girls have P*ssies

Hmm..
Well, the reason I have this craving to get her back is because I feel like I failed with her, which this shows that I did. I sarge women, and this girl is no big part of my life, I just thought it would be a cool little mission I could accomplish in order to set a nice milestone for my learnings.

But, after the advice I've received from you guys that have been doing this much longer than I, I've decided just to go sarging tomorrow. If you all say that my attempts won't bring me revelation, I'll believe you.

Thanks for your time and effort!

i wouldnt recommend doing anything, it then becomes a game of point scoring against the other guy, what would annoy her more is that you dont want to sleep with her

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