Hey all,

I'm a noob...never kissed a girl, and I have the chance to makeout with a total hottie who I met over the internet. She said she'd love to give me my first kiss, but that she's not looking for anything physical because she kind of has her eye on someone else. I figured what the hell...I'm not looking for a relationship with her, just some fun and experience. However, I'd love to get a bit more touchy feely. How should I go about this? Is there something I can do subtly while we make out that will allow her to let her guard down and really turn her on? Or should I just be honest with her and tell her I'd love to do a bit more?

Hmm, well I dont see the harm in meeting up with this girl and having a good time and kissing her. If you're not looking for a relationship then it should be easy! And dont forget fun! Since neither of you are looking for anything to come out of this then there shouldnt be any pressure. As for escalating, if you're really interested in going further then you're not going to convince her over the internet since the kiss will be in person you must make her feel like escalating isnt a big deal to either of you.

Go meet her and make a day of it and have a good time. Throughout the day, give her kino, be playful and a challenge, and if she's already willing to kiss you, she may become susceptible to a little escalation. Since it's your first time, dont try and force anything. It's supposed to be fun, but dont try and slam one out of the park if she has any objections. Being cool and calm with a girl can work WONDERS and maybe down the road she'll get in touch with you when she is ready to take it a step further with you.

Be cool man and have fun! If you're still going to try and escalate further, there's great material out there to read up on.

Touch her, but don't just go grabbing her ass or boobs.



Put a hand on her lower back, or back of head, or both, etc etc etc


if she objects. Say...


"Hey, I know I'm new to this, but I sure know there's more to kissing than just putting our lips together. I'm sure it feels a lot better when I do this *action*"

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I'm not sure if I agree with the whole, meeting a random hottie off the internet to give you your first kiss thing. Are you sure she is who she says she is? You're old enough to be doing this right?

Any way as for the whole "physical" thing, she probably just means she's not going to fuck you. Unless she's planning on giving you just one kiss. But if she's planning on making out with you, just kiss her a while, then move on to kissing her neck, and when you do that, let your hands wander. Also keep your hands moving around her back. If you plant your hands in one spot, she will notice when you go to move them to other areas. But if you are constantly circling her back, you can just gradually move your hand movements into other areas and it is less noticeable. Also, don't just sit there and wait for instruction. Women like it when a guy's in control. Even though this is your first time, try to lead. Also make eye contact, before while you are talking to her, and then during any breaks in the kissing, it'll put more sexuality into the kiss vs it being platonic.

It seems like you have a really great opportunity here to get your first kiss. And start making the step into the wonderful world of kissing. As they other said, always remember to have fun. Keep your cool and confidence. Get her into the mood and when you feel like it's time. Then just touch her gently with your hand on her neck. Let your fingers run through the back of her hair. Kiss her gently on the side of her neck. And sweetly kiss her up the neck and then kiss her lips. While you hold her head in you hands.

Dude then you should just fell and go with the flow