That's my biggest problem. It's actually so big that everybody immediately thinks I'm gay and I mean EVERYBODY. Now, I don't dress or talk like a girl or a gay guy but unconsciously I do things that only gay people do I think. It's pretty blatant. I also look very effiminate.

I think I will need an adapted technique because a lot of ticks wont work, like i.e. acting as if you're not interested in the girl to spark her curiosity and so on.

So how must a guy like me play with girls? Knowing that, the moment I approach her, she already 'knows' so to speak that I'm gay based on her first impressions of me.