I need an opinion on the the following case.

I lived in another country for 6 months. While there I met a girl. She's not hot hot, maybe 8 but I like her personality. She is socially quite active as well. We spend time together, especially before I left. During the last 2 months our relationship got deeper. I wouldn't call her my girlfriend but we slept together, had sex and stuff like that.

Anyway, now I've been back home for 2 months. We've kept in touch via SPAM, not very intensively but every now and then. We've been talking about me going to visit her for a week. However I have sensed that the distance between us has been growing.

Last time we spoke about me going there, I sensed hesitation from her side. So I asked her if I would go to see her, would I go there as a friend or as something else. She replied she didn't know. So I said "I won't come if Im just a friend. Make up ur mind about what you want. Let's talk again after couple of days".

I didn't show I was pissed off. I tried to be in control and act unaffected by her hesitation. Anyway, I'm not very optimistic about the whole thing but I still want to go there, it would be a good adventure.

I'm wondering is there any game I could play at this point? We will talk once more and that chat might be my only chance to convince that she wants to see me.

And if the game proves to be over, I would also know opinions about proper way of breaking up if you're the one being dumped. Just incase she would regret her decision later.

The correct response to getting dumped?

You just act unaffected LOL. Just say "I had a really great time, and it was the best part of my life knowing you, and I am really glad to have met someone like you. Let's stay friends" . Use reverse psychology and have her see the values in wanting to keep you.

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