Hi first of all, love this forum. I hope i am posting in the correct place.


Ok so there is this girl i have been trying it on with for a while, at first i was making a complete tit of myself, doing everything wrong (doing everything she said, always calling her etc etc) basically doing everything that i shouldnt have been doing.

after reading a book or 2 and watching some vids, i kinda blanked her for a while as i thought it would give me the best chance possible to close at a later date. Now she has sent me a invite to a very small party and want to know the best way to reply?

Not at all, and just turn up on the night?

right away and let her know i am on it?

tell her i might be able to make it?

thanks

if its facebook, just put a maybe, and leave a comment saying youll be a bit late but youll try make it if you can.. or text her that or something...

Mate, your thinking way much into it... its a party, who cares? you just dont want to make yourself too available, hence the 'maybe' although you dont always need to do this, i accepted a party invite and said i was free (then again its after work on a thursday so i guess they knew not many people are busy thursday nights)

You jjust need to stop thinking too into it and just not make yourself too available but you should still go, have a good time, dont give her much attention there, flirt a little with the other girls, make her a bit jelous and dont go over the top...

Make her wonder whats happened to you, youve suddenly change from being a nobody woman slave to this all 'new' you!

Good luck

thanks man, solid advice