So how do you deal with girls that are by nature quite sarcastic or inconsistent with their attitude, form of playfulness and flirtation or dominant control?
I find playing along works, instead of trying to dominate, which makes it awkward. Direct the conversation into sexual topics, elicit emotions and escalate? Pretty much take control in a subtile way?

Would you use the same concept for girls that disqualify themselves?
Example:
Me: you miss me huh?
Her: Not really miss, just thought i'd be nice

Just carry on with high energy, and ignore her rejection?

you havent got replies because you asked about 324 questions in one post....narrow it down mate