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So. I'm NOT into the mystery method shit, I DO incorporate some of the principles into my game but I do not use openers and all that shit. I'm completely direct. ANYWAYS, there's this girl who I've known for awhile, anyways. She was always on and off to me, because I was AFC. Eventually, I got so AFC in front of her, she just kinda shit all over me. Anyways, after not speaking or seeing from her for months, she's seen that I'm seeing someone and have seen other girls and now it seems that she tries to get in contact with me. She's invited me to the movies (with other friends of course), and to come hang out with her with other friends and shit. THE point is, before she never really gave a fuck up until now. Now she posts cute facebook comments on my wall, all that shit. I haven't responded to the Facebook comments, I'm pulling the "meh" card at the moment and just playing everything off like whatever. Also, she has a boyfriend she's been with for awhile, but thing is, this dude is good looking, but, he's kinda AFC. Always doing whatever SHE wants to do, very indecisive, bleh. ANYWAYS.
ONE thing about this girl that makes her harder to game than other girls (at least for me, also BECAUSE I AM boy friend destroying as well)
It seems ONCE you show her that you're sexually interested (this happened to like, three of my friends that are naturals that I introduced to her before I learned pick up), she seems to pull away. Or atleast, she acts like "yeah I like you like that" and then in that same moment she'll change the vibe up, or, she'll start shitting on you. But unlike most girls who act awkward and NEVER talk to you again, she'll maintain contact with you and give you mixed vibes.
Additionally, before people start shouting oneitis, I'll be honest. At one point, I had a huge crush on this girl, but, now it's not even like that, I find her sexually attractive, otherwise, she's a dime a dozen. It's something about the challenge here that has me fascinated and wants me to go through with this.
Anyways, I'm curious what tactics you guys can steer me to, to help me on my brilliant quest? Thanks in advance everyone!
MY tactic I'm going to employ is, RANDOMLY asking her to hang out one day (probably next week), basically acting how I've acted around the girls I've dated recently, being physical, having no shame, being confident, etc. And then if she brings up the boyfriend, drop the normal, make him seem like the NICEST GUY ever, and KEEP PUSHING. Then she'll go home and I'll probably not talk to her for a week again, repeat the process and try to elevate each time. Does this sound like a good idea sirs?
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