Hey everyone, went out last night...met a fit irish girl (she was a solicitor) and kiss closed. When i got home tried to call her...she didnt answer then sent her a text message saying

Hey you, what u up 2? want to meet up? Been up to much? would be good to get to know u more...txt me it would be good. tk care x x.

I cringed as i re-wrote this.............have no idea what possessed me...except that i was drunk.

Goes against all my rules...very needy and not attractive.

Can i recover from this? if so what should my next move be...

I was going to wait for a reply and if she doesnt reply to the drunk txt message in the evening around 6 reply saying something like Hey, what yo up to, sorry for the phone call and txt last night....was encoraged by my mate....not cool. Was nice meeting you last night...hows ur day been? x

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Don't apologize, just carry forward like nothing happened.

Try just shooting her a text that is fun and out of the ordinary. This will let her know you're there, but it doesn't put you out there appearing super needy. I say all sorts of random things through texts like, "I wish I had a helicopter. I hate traffic

When you ask her a question it requires more effort for her to respond rather than responding something that is so low investment. Once she responds to something low investment you can use that momentum to move forward.

Hope that helps.

WOAHhhhhhh

That text was megaaaa cringeee.

Least you're aware of that, bro.

I also hate it when I'm texting a girl, and I bust out two questions, even when just being genuine. It feels so needy-chicklike.



The first bit of the text apologising about the call, there's nothing wrong with that at all. Except, there's no real point apologising, it's just a call, you didn't interupt anything. So leave it.

The second part of that text where you was going to blame your actions on someone else sounded like a nervous insecure cover-up, and that is what would havebeen like, overkill. That sucked, bro!


Leave it a week or something, see if she texts you. If not, text her something irrelevant of that past situation.



^I hope there are lessons here for you.

Love

~Finesse

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