Gents,

I posted here recently about a girl I spent the night with, then she blew me off saying she didn't want a relationship (but I knew she remained interested). Through creating distance, playing it cocky-funny and being laid back, she was back in touch recently. Last night she sent a text message saying "You are so cute x". Here's the twist. She's bi. We were texting back and forth last week, and she made a bi-comment about a woman she knows (not a close friend), indirect but suggestive that she's trying to get something out of the woman. I escalated, and said we should do it together. She immediately replied and said she wanted me to say more. So, without spelling it out, I hinted that it'd be fun if we both turned our attentions on this woman. Yesterday I followed up with a friendly text, to test the water and she remains cool (i.e. I didn't push it too far). Trouble is I am not sure how to take it forward. I remain cautious as she has shot me down before. And today, no contact from her. Basically there is a possible 3-sum here, but I'm struggling to engineer it to happen. Any thoughts how I can close the deal, without a) offending her and b) making her feel like a slut.

Replies appreciated.

Embrace.

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