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PostPosted: Wed Jul 14, 2010 1:57 pm 
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Ehi, guys, what is the best kind of approach for a girl who is establishing a lot of eye contact with you (her interest is obvious)? Direct? Indirect?

Maybe it depends on the kind of eye contact, if it is more sexual or more romantic.

What is your opinion?

What do the methods you read say about?

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PostPosted: Wed Jul 14, 2010 6:53 pm 
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Direct.

If she is staring at you from across the room and is making it blatantly obvious. ie. 'come and talk to me now!!!'. then walking over to her and asking her opinion on something is going to result in you looking like a tool.

If the looks are very subtle, then going indirect would only make sense if you changed location (out of her sight) and then came back to open her a little while later.


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PostPosted: Fri Jul 16, 2010 1:59 pm 
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Thank you very much, Visionxxxxxx. I really appreciate the scientific style of your reply: the kind of reply I was searching for.

What is your favourite seduction method? I like Adam's method.


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PostPosted: Fri Jul 16, 2010 2:04 pm 
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I dont really have a favorite PUA style as such. However I would say the best material Ive come across is Vin Dicarlo's (The Attraction Code). This changed the way I saw Pick Up completely. I think its important to of course learn from other so called masters, but more importantly develop your own 'style' in the process. This style should be YOU from the very core.


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PostPosted: Fri Jul 16, 2010 2:20 pm 
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So you have studied just a bit of material and acquired a lot of pratical experience, haven't you?

Do you regularly spend your time in the game? I am a newbie, I have studied 3-4 seduction books and never approached after this study.


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PostPosted: Fri Jul 16, 2010 2:28 pm 
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I have read a lot of material yes, but practical experience is what really takes you places and most newbies dont realize this. They have all the theory in their head after a whole year of reading, but wonder why they are still chicken shit to speak to a women.

You need to start approaching asap else you're not going to get very far. Take action now. 4 books is more than enough to get an idea of the basics. In fact in my opinion i would simply read David D's Double Your Dating as this gives a good grounding, and then Vin Dicarlo's The Attraction Code. The rest you will learn from experience (and from this forum when you have sticking points).


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PostPosted: Fri Jul 16, 2010 2:46 pm 
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You are right.

I have approached maybe 15-20 groups of women, but in vacation and before studying seduction. Incredible.

The girls who have been part of my life were of my social circle. But now I would like to improve my pick up skills.

The beginning is the hardest part :-)


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