Thanks to Jason from Chicago who went out of his ways to show me his natural game....and thanks to The Game by Neil Strauss.....I finally got my first number from a girl.....
So heres the story......Me and two of my friends were at Thunder Valley casino....we decided to hit the little mini bar/club.....A guy and a girl came to us and ask us to help buy drinks for them since they both forgot their ids in the car....I immediately introduce myself to the girl....started asking if she saw the concert before she came to the bar.....so we juss have little talks bout the concert....then i went over to the guy and start talkin to him....We found a table for all of us.....I dance wit my friends and ignore the girl for a bit....then i went over and ask her if she belive in lie detector test....she said yes...and i said i got one in my brain....so i played that 5 question lying game wit her....first question was wat color is my shirt....she passed.....how old is ur bf? she passed....but then she explain to me that she didnt have a bf...thats ioi.....have u play this game be4? she failed...haha....and got me a drink....then i tried to dance wit her...she said she dont dance....so i started getting freaky wit my friends again....got her a little bit jealous....so she got up and started dancing wit me.....its like magic....i ask her so how can we continue this conversation? pulled out my phone and it was magic.....Thanks to PUA forum.....within six month i should be so good......

Grats man!

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congrats man.... this is only the beginning

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"StreetLight!! Stop seeing every problem in life like it's a chick you didn't hit on!"

congrats bro

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Congrats man, keep it up and it'll get that much better!!

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Day By Day, Night After Night

i have a question.....so the next nite...me and my pivot HB8 went out wit the HB7 and her guy friend again to a karaoke bar.....i came and sat next to her and told my pivot to go sit next to the guy....i was talkin to her for a bit...then i put my arm around her waist and she told me im coming off too strong.....now i forgot to say that at the club...i did the same thing and it was cool.....wat went wrong? she was drunk at the club? shes sober now? or i gotta attract her all over again? so wen she said that i came off too strong...i immediately went to my pivot and started holding her....me and my pivot are like best friend....sister and brother....so she no wat i was trying to do...make the target jealous......did i do the rite thing? can i still fix it after wat she said? Shes pretty much my guinea pig....my tester...im not really feeling her...hahaany advice wat i should do?

You keep moving until you hook up or get rejected and told to go away. Like you said she is the test model anyway. You can't lose!

Try going Cocky funny for a minute or two to warm her back up. Use the eye contact and make sure you touch hands or touch her arm a little later for a "Heat check".

Question?

When you put your arm around her did you acknowledge that you were doing it? Did you do it and then smile or something? That could have been it. She wants to give in but if you give her an indicator that you think you are "in" too early she will back you away. .

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Great stuff man, I always love to hear success form people just starting out. Please keep us updated on any other success, it keeps me motivated.

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I'm new to the game, just striving to get better.

Please excuse my thread making. I'm starting completely fresh and need to limit the ammount of rejections whilist I'm starting.

She actually did acknowledged it.....and my arms were around her waist for about a minute...then she took my hands off and said u come off too strong....Because at the club....i had my arms around her for a good ten minutes....i shoulda try to kiss close wit the would u like to kiss me routine....I thought i was in too....thats why she smelt it......i no wat i did wrong.....its a good lesson....I have so much confident now......Thanks for all the support!!!!!

If you dont know the girl that well (ie. in the beginning stages) then you are better off kino escalating from scratch each time you see her. Just because she let you hold her waist the night before doesnt mean that she is going to be ok with you doing it the next night as if you own her.

Think about this....even with a girl that you DO know well (ie. girlfriend or wife), you still need to escalate with her before having sex. If you and your girl were talking about something random such as an argument that you and your boss had that day (ie. something NON sexual) and you randomly whipped down her pants and tried to have sex with her, she would be alarmed and probably a bit freaked out. There was no basis for your actions.

However if you were flirting sexually before hand (or even just one sexual remark that she welcomed), she will be more warmed up to it and would welcome the spontaneous cave man behavior as there was a grounding for it. ie. you set the context to that of a sexual one before going in for the kill.

Same go's for putting your hand around a girls waist, she needs to be ready for it in the moment before you do it.