I came home from work last saturday, walked into my room saw another man having sex with my girlfriend in my bed and under my roof. Im such a loser all i could do is sit there and watch as they finished up. I dont get why she would cheat on me, I treat her well and do what she tells me to do. What can i do to win her back?

This is why:
You allowed her to step all over you. Ibet you never said no to her ever.
Why?

What can you do to win her back? WHAT CAN YOU DO TO WIN HER BACK?!?

WHY THE FUCK DO YOU WANT A CHEATING HO BACK???

Don't get sad, GET EVEN!

Fuck someone else and you'll fell a whole lot better!

...and you want her back...

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[quote="Zachariah09"]I came home from work last saturday, walked into my room saw another man having sex with my girlfriend in my bed and under my roof. Im such a loser all i could do is sit there and watch as they finished up.

No disrespect.So what happen next you gave the guy a high five, walked him calmly out the door?, Piped her after?Obviously something else happened?... Either you bowed down to her and ask on your knees why? or you kicked her ass out.

That is just point blank in your face, your girl could have easily been doing this for weeks or months until now. Move on man cast and reel out another reel

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Wow this is the worst case of Oneitis/ Desperation / Being to nice I have ever seen. You have to dump her, have secks with 10 other girls, Focus on your career and become a millionaire, Grow some balls, and read The Game.

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Buddy I was in a similar situation i know it sucks but honestly she isn't worth it once a cheater always a cheater. Honestly get rid of pictures of her, and all the stuff that reminds you of her.

strip naked and stick it in her other hole. like really tear that shit up. then kick her out.

oh, and get an STD test.

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She has friends. Some of them might be hot right? Use the force kid. You have to recover and regroup now. Hit the gym, get a haircut and pounce on some new. You are the prize at all times not the other way around.


I agree with the original response. You learned a valuable lesson. If you let a woman walk on you once what is stopping her from doing it again. Stand your ground next time. It works.

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thanks for your responces guys. Your right i gotta move on.

Holy fuck. I don't think I could watch another man take care of a girl that's my target much less my girlfriend I live with. I woulda freaked out. Sure, sure, she's a terrible human, but I bet you brought this on yourself by being such a passive douche. She cheated on you because she wants a man that doesn't stand in the doorway masturbating with his tears while another guy rails her right in front of you. Become a worthwhile man and never revisit this dark, ugly place. Ugh, depressing.

PS. Don't ever tell this story to a woman you want to have sex with.

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"minsok" we can always count on you for solid, no-bullshit advice cheers to you!

That does sucks, and youd did acted like a wuss, I mean I can understand that you were shocked, and this is too far from your reality to apprehend so you didn't knew what to do...

Anyhow.... that doesn't matter, people cheat and being cheated on, it will become statistic, whats important is what you are going to do about it now

you can, be miserable, I mean, off course you will feel sad, but I'm talking about the really miserable type of guy, one that this whole thing became a big trauma in his life and he's emotional being is built all around it, either by blaming yourself all the time or the world or women or society or whatever

or

You can see it as a slap in the face from lady fate herself (a good WAKE UP slap), and become active, first even if it's her fault or your fault, you don't need her back, it won't work, I'm not saying that if a girl cheats once in the beginning of a relationship it cant work, but ..dude, in your house? in front of you? if you'll continue it's doomed to suck
second... wake up and smell the flowers, you're a free man and you deserve better

welcome to the community

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