Hey guys I was just thinking....

This PUA stuff and dating and going to bars and clubs in general can be fun but it is usually men who have to do most of the work and have everything together like the approach, eye contact, qualification, comfort, seduction in the right order and quantity, what do women have to do apart from make sure she likes the guy or he is not a psycho that is going to hurt her?

Women put more effort into their appearance as it takes them significantly longer to get ready and put make up on, but we have to do more work not just with the approach but all the way through to the lay and beyond,

Dang I want a rich women to even things out a bit Hehe.

I find I can get laid but not as much as I want and I am doing most of the chasing most of the time, even though women will call me occassionally or ask me to come over and I have gotten them to buy me drinks, it is mostly one sided I feel which can affect her interest levels after a while and it is rare that I have a relationship that lasts longer than a month,

Cocky and funny banter only works up to a point but it can spice things up if she is losing interest, qualifying, comfort and seduction are hit and miss really, sometimes girls will let me kiss them which sometimes leads to sex and sometimes they won't it is not something I seem to have any control of.

It shouldn't be this hard really seen as though I am not bad looking, am fit, have some reasonable PUA skills or so I hope, have travelled and plenty of life experience.

I am qualifying these women but I do feel the ball is in their court so to speak even if I have several numbers of women I am setting up day 2s with, anything I can do to switch this around, how can I make it easier I feel like an AFC at the moment even though I am getting laid it feels like my priviledge and not theirs and that is not right?

Would appreciate any thoughts or insights into this as I believe it has affected a large proportion of wings that I have met up with before also.

Sleep with her. that's a much bigger investment for a woman than a man (pregnancy ties her up for 9 months, your ready to go and reproduce again in 9 minutes).

after that, make her work for things. give her hoops to jump through. the more effort she puts in, the more invested she is.

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ktime70 I did sleep with some of the girls which raised their interest level but only for about a couple of weeks, I was a challenge the whole time, interesting and was cocky and funny a little bit as it is naturally my personality, don't get why they lose interest and why I have to keep chasing,

What kind of hoops can I get the girl to jump through other than getting her to buy me the occassional drink, doing kinky things in the bedroom and qualifying herself to me?

That is because you gave them nothing to invest in for the long term (ie something more than one night stand). Think of this as if you where playing the stock market and you are a piece of stock. What do you think will take an investor (ie a girl) to invest in you for for long term and not for a short sell (ie one night stand)? On the stock market a stock has to show long term potential growth to be worthy of a long term investment and a pay out that is attractive when the investor thinks the stock has peeked.