Friends,

I gamed this hot babe about a month ago, we had a couple of great dates, and spent one night together. She was really keen, until, basically, I fucked it up by offering up my feelings. She shot me down after a few days of silence saying she wasn't ready for a relationship. I played it cool, and told her no probs and that it'd be cool to hang out. Since then we have done, once, which was okay. We've swapped a few texts, nothing heavy, but not leading anywhere / long silences between. Thing is when I see her and chat (at work), I still get IOIs. We spent a day together about a week ago, and she texted me later saying thanks and how good a day it was x. I msn-ed her the following day with a fun comment and she more or less shut me down.

I sarged a girl at the weekend, and got an f-close. [Aside: it wasn't until the morning we had sex; she told me that she wasn't into 1 nighters, so I replied no problem, it's now the morning. This was when I was hovering over her ready to go]. Anyway, I'm basically, trying to get over my one-i-tus, but failing miserably. I'm not particularly looking to make a gf out of her, but I do like her and want more.

Thoughts? What should I do... it's driving me nuts.

In appreciation,
Embrace

Hey mate, we've all been there. My advice, can you bang this chick again? If so do it, if not and even better if so, sarge more, open your possibilities, they're endless, have fun, she'll be something of the past very soon.

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Cheers mate. Not sure if I can get her again. That's the big question. Right now I'm going through a transformation, reading all the books (like Influence), listening to MM CDs, and generally redesigning myself. She saw the old me, or rather got a glimpse of the AFC in me. Fuck. I'm now deploying the scarcity principle and social value by lunching and being seeing with as many woman as possible. Thanks again.
Embrace

Well, what I'd do, is concentrate and keep doing what your doing in terms of building a better you. I'm sure you will come into conversation with her again, this is where you will naturally come off better, so don't worry man. Get out there, get women, improve yourself, her loss, your gain.

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Cheers man. Onwards and upwards mate. To the max!
Guess it don't matter with her either way. I'll keep this thought train going...

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Good spirit and you know what, keep thinking like that, and have self confidence, you will go places, quickly.

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