ok, so i was just talkin on the phone with this girl, and i just want to get a ful close and be done with her, but i dont seem to get anywhere. today she called me on the phone and i teased her a lil bit about owing me dinner, and when she said she cant afford it, i tried to push pull by saying " and thats why we will never work". but she just replied by saying, and i quote, " i know we wont work, we work as friends..."

what i do wrong?

MMA N3RD

She called you on the phone, which is a good thing, but you didn't tell her to come over! You teased her about dinner instead and made it hard for her.

You should have tried to get her to come over your house and see what she said. Would have given you a much different result, IMO.

Also, she can probably tell you just want to fuck her and dump her. This is bad. Girls want to know you're going to stick around after the fact. Or at least be available after the fact. How would you feel if you fucked a girl and she didn;t return your calls?

Not cool.

You need to do whatever it taes to have HER best interests in mind. You want to keep HER feeling good. That's how you surround yourself with women: you actually care about them as people. An attitude adjustment would be in order!

okay thanks, and i havent shown that much interest, i mean i told her i used to be crazy about her, which i think was a mistake. and its not that i treated her not like a person, is im trying to show she cant walk all over me you know?

you used to be crazy about her? so you've already been landed in "friend" zone. cut contact, re-open when your game is stronger.

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