| You're one of those people who I read posts from and feel absolutely confused. Like, what are you thinking? You're all over the place.
First off; what are the disadvantages to talking to both of them?
If you want Club's social circle, then becoming her friend is the easiest way, taking her out on a date could fuck you over purely because if she doesn't want to, it'll make it awkward and you'll have lost her social circle.
Secondly, how do you get a LTR girl to just have a fuck?
Mandatory question; are you a virgin?
If you want an LTR girl to just have a fuck, there are two approaches that I've used;
1) You need to avoid all conversations regarding relationships, if she brings it up, be ambiguous. Lead her on, etc.
2) Be honest, tell her that you just want to fuck her (best done in person) and hope for success similar to the apocalypse opener or extremely simple, forward openers.
In regards to her posting something on facebook about you; I highly doubt it, unless you're being an incredible creep, and even then, you have to be something special to be talked about for being a creeper.
Dude, just see where it takes you. Just talk to them, keep your goals in mind and execute if you get the chance. You don't get any better without practice, and the least these two will be is practice.
Also, for the ID thing, it's not that big of a deal. She doesn't even need to know that you don't have a fake, you can just pretend that you don't want to go out to clubs with her.
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