My ex and I have been dating off and on for about the past 9 months. The only reason we went off a few times is because she's 17 and still lives with her parents. They don't exactly approve, but eventually we just said "screw it" and dated anyways.
Things were going great. July 4th, I had the best night of my entire life (and she said the same to me). The very next day, we hung out and went to see a movie. After the movie, we wanted to hang out a little more and maybe go to dinner or something. Our ride never showed up, and we both got stranded there for about 30 mins, and were both really upset. She had to have her mom come pick her up. We argued a little that night, but it was nothing too bad. I think it just stressed her out, which in turn, caused us to argue a lot over the next few days, and it kind of fell apart 2 days ago. We decided we should take a "break."
About an hour ago, we talked on Facebook, we discussed everything that happened. She said how she doesn't think things will ever be the same. I pretty much explained how we've argued in the past, said things will "never be the same," and how somehow we've always come out better in the end. She didn't bite this time.
I kinda joked about how I knew that usually, taking a break was code for "moving on" and she pretty much admitted that straight up. I did the whole "just tell her how you feel" routine, but didn't go overboard. Just pretty much said that I loved her still, and that I wanna make things works., and she said "I wish I felt the same
" -- Something about that though just felt like she was just trying to burry her feelings, or that maybe she was confused? Throughout the conversation, she even dropped a few "I love you" and "I miss you" lines, so I didn't exactly buy it.
I am totally in love with this girl, and have been trying to give her the space she needs. I really, really don't wanna lose her. I need some advice to maybe help save things.
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