So I have been in pickup for a little over a year now. Its een working great.
What i ave found is that im making more male friends, because the networking is incredible. But heres my question, how do you deal with the guys that dont like because of what you do. IE you are seen with a differnt girl at each party by this one guy, or at the mall ect. ALl you get is criticism. I mean obviously its just jealousy, because the only guys i know like this have no game what so ever. What do you do/say to these kinda people? Also side note... What do you say when being called a man slut/man whore... ?

Lets set the context. You are living the life and achieving your goals of getting women in the way that you want. You, like all of us who are learning this wonderful art are expanding your horizons and self image by being successful with women. Your confidence is increasing, your charisma is increasing, your psychological image of yourself being the "prize" is becoming more present in your mind. Soon, all problems with women will just be reflected with an act of indifference.

Comparing this to those "other guys" who spend their time watching you and being jealous of your skills. But further analysing this, jealousy implies that they want what you have. Which shows your social status is higher than theirs. All facts. Now what lies beyond is how you deal with situations like this. Personally, I would act indifferently and just brush off their jealousy. Obviously as you begin your journey in the world of pick up you will meet a lot of friends along the path but unfortunately, there will also be enemies. This is just something you need to accept I guess.

I suppose you could reason with them but I don't see the need to give those "other guys" value over something their own negetive feelings.

As I said, however you deal with it is completely up to you.

AFCCoffee

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at the end of the day what business is it of theirs who you have on your arm.
im also betting these guys are either single or in long term committed relationships. its generally jealousy that they cant have different women on their arms if need be keep the 2 seperate if they cant handle it basically dont bring a girl along if your meeting your friends

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Well, my 2 cents is:

F them!

Nobody has to like what you are doing. Thats your business and noone elses. Yes I have been called a bad guy and a player and guess what, people dont care, they want to see for themselves.

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I'm not trying to be a dick Ezo, but you're being a Pick Up Snob in my opinion.

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