OK here's the situation, met this girl saturday night on a city that's 45 min away from mine,have to say I was a little drunk, she initiates the conversation tells me that she wants to show me around the city, I get her number and she tells me that she works till 4 PM anytime after that I can call her, she gives me a side-hug and we go our separate ways. I wait till tuesday night at 7 PM to call her, she doesn't answer, she doesn't have my number and it's from another state so I'm thinking she doesn't pick up strange numbers or something. So I wait till wednesday at 8 PM to call her and she tells me "oh hi I was just going back to work I'll give you a call"

So, my question is, is she rejecting me? And if so, what did I do wrong and how can I get better?

It doesn't neccessarily mean she's rejecting you. It could quite possibly be that she forgot about you. Attraction for someone can come and go very quickly. Chances are the attraction she felt for you during Saturday is not on the same level now.

What I like to do is instantly text the girl when I get her phone number. Doing this lets her know your phone number so when you do call or text her, she has it saved in her phone. I like to text her that night, or the next day saying how it was nice to meet her- or I had a good time- whatever.

I don't buy into this wait X amount of time to contact a girl because it shows higher value- you got better things to do. It's a bunch of bullshit because if you an attractive girl gives her phone number out to five guys week- that's four other guys you have compete with. You need to put yourself on her radar- and let her know you're there.

She said she would call you back. If she hasn't done so by now, I'd just shoot her a low investment text. As in low investment, something that is just funny- or not really asking her to reply with much thought- just to get the ball rolling. To point here is just to get a conversation going- in which you can spark up that interest again and hopefully arrange a meet.

There's a ton of text message lines in this forum somewhere under Text Game. I actually just looked into the Ultimate Text and Phone Game put out by Braddock and the book has a lot of solid material. Definetely a good

Thanks