I have been chatting with girls on facebook and some of them i get in long conversations that are over an hour long sometimes and the conversation keeps going over nothing. my question is how can i determine if a girl i talk to is interested in me and not just chatting it up?. what kinds of things should i look for?

Asking her to meet up.

Agreed with that. But I would also discourage internet chats as gaming. Make them short and sweet, and arrange meet ups quickly. Internet chat game is just so much weaker than regular game, and it will come across as such if you use it too much.

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Sorry Royal I gotta disagree with you. I do a lot of my gaming on facebook and text. (Provided it is with girls in highschool that text nonstop)
I can write beautiful things to girls over text. Heck, right now I've been talking to a girl for only 2 days. She already wants to date me. NO LIE. She wants me to meet her parents and everything. She even told her mom about me.

So here's the deal. If you know these girls like to chat online or over text, DO IT! Otherwise, just keep it short.
Either way, you need to meet them sooner or later. AFC Royal is right about it. Meeting them in person is really the meat to the whole gaming process. You need to backup what you say in those texts. If you write them wonderful things, make sure you can SPEAK wonderful things to their faces.

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any of u have facebooks so u can help me out. just send a pm and ill tell u my name to add me. what my concern is how to steer the conversation to where i want it to be and be in a postition to ask a girl out without it being creepy cuz some of these girls i dont know or live in my area but i never met.

ya know what man, it kinda just comes naturally for me. I say the cheesiest stuff when it comes to texting but they love it. I got to third base with a girl I just met yesterday. I texted her for about two days. The first day I met her she was willing to let me fuck her even though she hasnt done that stuff with other guys.

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Like Turbo92, i do online game (fb) to complement my day game,it lets you connect with girls you wouldent usually bump into in day to day life... like a few models i am gaming, i wouldent have bumped into them in my regular day to day life!! and probably not even at clubs because they will go to the best clubs...
It doesnt come naturally for me, well being c&f fits my personalilly but i was pretty bad with girls before reading allot of pua stuff... these days though like Turbo i say random, sometimes cheesy things to these girls and they seem to like it.... when i say random i do mean pretty random.... but they lap it up... hope to meet one of the models i am currently fb gaming for some fun soon

Like the first response said, you need to ask her to meetup... that's how you know if she's interested in you or is just chatting... that's the goal of chatting on fb anyway

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As far as what to say to her on fb (how to steer the conversation to get her to meet up with you), just keep it lighthearted and friendly... at this point, since she doesn't know you too well, it might come across as creepy if you come on too strong... just keep it fun and lighthearted... then tell her that she seems like a fun person to hang out with and ask her to hang out sometime. Once you meet her, that's another story... but on facebook, as long as you haven't met her yet, keep it friendly and light.

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What's a conversation like between you and the girl online? I can't really imagine how online conversation would create so much sexual tension and interest. Would you mind posting a conversation?

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Damn dude I don't remember what I said to her. But whatever I say almost always falls with in the guidelines of the routines. I don't necessarily use the exact routines, but they're pretty similar.

You need to remember a few things.
#1. Don't be afraid to say ANYTHING. With text you can always add a "jk" after something creepy. Here's an example: When I was younger, before I was in pua, I would say to girls "Wanna make out?" and I would get VERY good turnouts. But remember that these are highschool girls that are my age.

#2. Be playful. nuf said. Saying "Hey let's make out." isn't creepy, it's playful. WARNING!!! Make sure you've talked to the girl for atleast a little bit before using this. It's definitely not a conversation starter.

#3. Act like it is an actual conversation with an actual person face-to-face. But with text you have an advantage, you have time to think of clever things to say!

#4. Be cheesy. I've had girls tell me I say cheesy stuff. The same girls have also sent me underwear pictures. (not quite nudes though).
#4 1/2. You can use song lyrics and be a little cheesy. They'll take it less creepy and more "cute" if you use song lyrics. If they flip out, just say "you've never heard that song?!?"

#5. If you do it right, you CAN get results. Almost every relationship I have had was mainly over text. I met some at school, got to know them a little bit and get their #, I would text them. Next thing you know, we're sitting on a couch cuddling together.

#6. THE TRUTH GAME! This is a big tool that I have used while texting. All you gotta do is ask her to play, she will usually say yes. The game is simple. You ask her a question; she answers. THEN she asks you a question, and you answer. You start with easy questions "What's your favorite color? Fave childhood memory, etc," Then you amp it up a little bit each time asking more and more personal questions.

#7. Be willing to take risks! Remember, if you only know her from online, the only girl you can possibly lose is her. MAYBE her friends too. But they live far away and it won't affect you. You can either be creepy or romantic. If you are romantic, then you might gain a girl OR a wonderful conversation. It depends if you two are willing to take it farther and actually meet.

#8. I was sucking this girls titties the first day I met her. We only talked OVER TEXT for two days. She doesn't do stuff with other guys. (PS. I might write a field report on it.) We never even talked on the phone. NOT ONCE. We still haven't. And she has no regrets about me. I could have fucked her right there.

#9. I have a theory. Now I would consider myself a pretty hot guy (not trying to boast). Maybe an 8 or a 9. I'm strong, athletic, going to college this fall, I have a pretty good looking face. Now I'm not sure if an unattractive guy would do so well. He may end up on the more creepy side. But hey, it's worth a shot. Test it out. I'm not sure if the level of attractiveness matters.

So good luck with your text game. Remember these key points. And keep checking to see if I write that field report. It will probably be labeled "Facebook ends up going to third base." But again, I'm not sure if I am going to write a field report. I really like this girl and I want an LTR with her. I don't want ANY CHANCE of losing her because I posted something online. You may think that is ridiculous (and maybe it is) but I got some oneitis for her and I'm not gonna lose this one.

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I dont understand, you add a random girl on facebook and when they write "who is this?" on facebook you would just delete and wait to talk on chat ?

Im guessing a direct opener then? Even though saying "You seemed cute so i added you" seems creepy?!? your stalking her and her photos on FACEBOOK! this is creepy lol...

Or let me in on the secret how you do it anyone else or turbo

Cheers

just add 'em and be like .......hey hope you dont mind, i just thought you seemed like a really interesting girl......BAM! thats all it takes to be on the 'good' side

ok lol, so i would delete their wall post then? so i dont come off as a stalker when other friends stalk my wall? HAH! :p

Or i would write "i hope you dont mind me adding you you seem interesting.. blah blah" on their wall?

No no no! NEVER post something on their wall unless u already have a connection of some sort....do it through fbchat. you'll come off as another lame dude trying to hit on her if u post on her wall and what'll happen is: she wont reply to that, because she isnt going to want everyone to know she took the bait. not only that you're automatically disqualified (i think) the best thing would be throught fbchat....break the ice with 'hey thanks for the add i know we dont know each other but you seem like a fun girl' she is going to reply with 'thanks/no problems/lol ur welcome' something along those lines...and well its all you after that...'so where you from' etc etc...you know the game...be interesting.